Posts Tagged ‘Loyalty’

Hello Everyone first of all thank you all for the well wishes and the emails , messages etc etc .

job

 

I have a small little proposal here , thinking of working for myself ,starting a small little venture So Am looking for some talented young people who are good in Programming.  We have a few clients here who want a system written, Which I have already started on.

So if anyone can refer Hard working-Capable- Loyal people who know  C#, Asp.net , Sql Server or even if they have skills in PHP using open source , etc etc Then I am looking to hire a couple of people who can work remotely in India and who can be trusted to work without a lot of supervision, because I don’t have time to supervise them at moment neither the funds to Hire a Supervisor.

Please do send your contact details etc. so we can set up some Skype meetings and take it forward.  I am planning to come to india shortly for the same purpose as already have a few people lined up.

The reason I am asking openly is because Since I am starting new I can’t afford to be duped hence all you lovely people refer me some genuine people.  I have heard a lot of stories how things have gone wrong for some who have earlier tried to set up something like this back home.

I will spec the project out and also can send over the work that I have done so far, I just did not get enough time with full-time work and my part-time stuff. But this project is very important and I am in process of signing on about a dozen clients, hence the need to send work offshore so it is completed on time.

A good opportunity for new graduates to try their skills.

I have had a few very sad days for a last few weeks a few things been happening which have taken their toll , It has all made me wonder about a few things , I know one who has come to this world hast to go , today – tomorrow or some day .. basically we all have to leave .. One after the other it has to come to an end .. It all matter how we have lived that life . all those years on this planet.  I remember so many people who are no more in this world  but in my opinion had lived a great life , I mean I remember them so they are bound to have done a few good things .. Which again brings me to the point that Will there be anyone who remembers me .. Of will I die a death where people silently thank god .. Good riddance .. ( i know of One who will for sure.. inspite of going ga ga over the fact that I am supposedly the best friend forever.. Oh yes people I got enemies tooo and a lot of them )

We all live our life to the best we can but what happens when people die .. DO they die forever..  is it forever ?  Today 25th July was my dad’s death anniversary and I have been remembering a few things .. I know people say he is up there and he can see me .. but how do we know that ..

Some say that he is in a beautiful place and he is happier but again same question ?

A lot of these thoughts have been coming to my mind.. Do such questions trouble others too ..

I have been thinking a lot about him, I was sitting with a family friend yesterday and they were telling me so much about dad, Since her husband was one of his best friends even if we were related to each other .. Various emotions were going through at one stage I felt like crying but I did not, That reminds me I have not cried at all since Dad has passed away.. I have had tears swelled but I cant remember them falling..  .. Dont know why .. AM I THICK SKINNED or as they say COLD HEARTED or have a iron heart that doesnot feel sadness .. I dont know ..

What is it being sad.. what is it.. how do you feel sad..

I know I started this article with saying I have had a few sad days , But truthfully ahhhhhhhhh I don’t know , I have not been sad , Its been normal days , I have worked , worked and workeddddd .. Now I am thinking if I should be posting this article at all as I myself can’t make any sense out of it ..

At work its been the same Politics at its best, people back biting each other the so-called GOOD mates for the sake of showing off , or being in good books of seniors suddenly try the best they can to jeopardise you… sometimes I hate myself for being the way I am  good or bad I don’t know..  but then we can’t please everyone can we.. Is it crime these days to think the way I think ..

for me family and friends are sacred  friendship isn’t empty word  it  implies responsibilities , obligations  respect for each other ..

I know that  whatever happens I will always respect my friends, its up to them if they wanna do that towards me or not 🙂

 

This post might not be liked by many but over the years and with a few experiences that I have had in this life, I have found that on the whole We the people have somehow managed to master the art of cheating, lieing , disloyal basically the art of anything that would hurt the other human being.

Lets have a look at the above statement that I just made, have a think and look around yourself or anywhere, relationships these days don’t work as when it started it was different and now after some time people realise that what impressed them most about the other person simply does not exist, it never did cause it was sold to them at the start with a blatant, shameless lie.. For which we fell and now suddenly the truth dawned on to us and we found the REAL THEM…

Look at the way media plays around us creating this big world full of lies or stuff which may not have existed , what we think as truth turns out to be a big lie and what we thought was a lie was in fact the truth.. I mean media turns anything into ANYTHING… if you get the zest of it; I recently posted an ad on Harvey that just shows how we are influenced by media…

We are all the more inclined and are totally devoted to do things to create expectations which we know we are not going to fulfil especially towards people we say we love or care for ..

A few examples I picked out for example What do you guys think about BOTOX why was it invented, Well I feel that too was invented so we could LIE about our age it’s another thing that we have started using it to enhance our looks and other body parts depending on who or WHAT we are ..

Same way the Lipstick It was not initially about making lips look bright and pretty. It was about hiding black, chapped, smoker lips or covering up thin, pursed, ugly lips and giving a woman a more inviting, more pleasant look. This was fine as long as you did not take the woman home and wake up the next morning beside her in bed and discover that, in the bright light of morning and minus her makeup, hair extensions, coloured lenses and double push up bras, she looked nothing like the woman you had dated the night before.

We all are always looking for a new option constantly since we are disappointed with the ones we have at the moment ,  I am on a Orange mobile contract with a Xperia X10 but I want the company to give me a new Iphone 4 on the same contract, ok they say NO..  so I get angry at them and threaten to change the providers , They also add a juicy bit to it Ok Mr. Mann we will give you 50 picture messages a month and 100 minutes of video calls free for each month, so Mr. Mann is happy but we forget that they have all there infrastructure set up , does it matter to them if they give me a few more messages I am still paying over the top for the top end handset which obviously after showing off for a week or two will lose its charm and will again be just a Mobile which I want to change to Iphone 5 launching in June 🙂  (Ooooh with that I bet, I have started the rumour mills running too)

Iphone 4 promised so much but it failed at delivering and it’s got umpteen problems, cause that what happens, promise more than one can deliver at least something will be delivered is the idea , That explains continuing shifts in brand loyalty, and frequent breakdowns in relationships of trust.

A FACT… trust is the first casualty in the Age of Consumerism, even marriages are built on this no wonder divorces are so rampant. Hence one feels all cheated especially on the things that you have been fantasising like the lust for a woman and then discovering that her gorgeous assets are silicon-based.  Thats Cheating…

The new thing that has come up PANTS for men who have sagging bums, it’s like the bras that came to boost the size of women’s Asset .  Just imagine how both the couple would feel when they take their clothes off and find the CHEATING 🙂  I am sure a few people can come with other ideas to design clothes that would help the opposite genders to go WOW !!!   but then why am I talking about men I don’t think it justifies if women have been doing it for so many years and getting away it then why not men 🙂 I wonder where this war to cheat will take us…

To all those liars and cheaters .. Cheers to you all Have fun