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Hello everyone , Not sure if you all will understand the Punjabi, but if you listen a couple of times you should be able to, it’s a slow song , sung very nicely by one of my favourite singers and If you can hear the words or read the lyrics they are so true , I am sure many people will be able to relate to this all.. This is Short and sweet .. 🙂

(do Ignore the stupid pictures , just listen to the song, I could not find a better video)

Kaun Kina tainu Chaunhand – Tainu khak v pata nahin

Kaun rataan nu nahin Saunda – Tainu Kakh v pata nahin

Tere nakhre da bhaar har Roz wadhi jaave – Kaun Kina Mul Paunda – Tainu Kakh v pata nahin

 

Someone Loves you so deeply — You don’t have a clue

Someone spends sleepless nights –You don’t have a clue

Your air gets heavier by the day .. Who gets more Value — You don’t have a clue

 

Duniya ch kinee  Sohne –

Unglan te giniye je

Haye tera Naam kithe aunda .. tainu Kakh v pata nahin

World has os many beautiful people –

If I count them on my fingers

Where your name comes – You don’t have a Clue

Tun akhne Debi naal bas jaan pehchaan –

Ni tainu Geetaan rahin gaunda

Tainu Kakh V pata nahin

You say you just know me

I sing you through my words

You don’t have a clue

 

PS. It’s a friends Birthday today .. Wishing you A very happy birthday … Many many happy returns of the day..

The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2011 annual report for this blog.

Here’s an excerpt:

The concert hall at the Syndey Opera House holds 2,700 people. This blog was viewed about 37,000 times in 2011. If it were a concert at Sydney Opera House, it would take about 14 sold-out performances for that many people to see it.

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Thank you everyone who click on the link and come to this blog, Each one of you I want to personally say thank you.. for taking your precious time out , spending time to read what I write  and then commenting .. Each one of you is who have helped make this blog reach where it has now … I hope you will all keep loving this blog as you have been doing always …

High five everyone… its the New yearrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. … Happy new yearrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr 🙂

Took this tag up from Nu  and Elegant chic and Tgnd

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– Available: Always Available.. Bulao to .. anyone calling .. Call call .. 

– Age: Still Young.. and raring to go .. Age main kya rakha hai Dil dekho. (whats in  the age , look for my heart)

– Animals: Babbar Sher.. LION … cause where lions go no one dares ..

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– Beer: aaan deo.. aane do.. cheers.. (water scarcity – Save Water Drink Beer) Pint of black-Tan to start with Please ..

– Birthday:11th November (its in BOLD remember everyone, email me for my choice of gift 🙂 )

– Best friend: Lots, Anupinder, Babbar, Ravjote, Rintu (my cousin darling) , Cherry , Ajay , Vikram, Sood,  Ashwani  the list goes on and on and onnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn, Each friend is a best friend, all you lovely people reading this  🙂

– Body Part on opposite sex: REALLY , this is a question I don’t beleive it , Not replying my blog is for all– don’t want it adult rated 🙂

– Best feeling in the world: Jumping from 14000 feet from a plane .. Racing towards earth

– Best weather: Spring (india) – Summer(uk)

– Been in Love: Yes

– Been on stage: Yes

– Believe in Magic: No

– Believe in Santa: No

– Brand: Maruti.. he he he he he

C
– Candy: Strawberry

– Color: Bright, Red, blue

– Chocolate/Vanilla: Chocolate with a scoop of vanilla 🙂

– Chinese/Indian/Italian: Again how can u choose , I want all three  and that too at the same time 🙂

– Cake or pie: Cake

– Cheese:Already too FAT!!!!

D
– Day or Night: Night

– Dancing in the rain: oooooh La la 🙂

E
– Eyes: Black

– Ever failed a class?: Yes

– Enemies: That is a long list tooo, but who cares, to them Anytime-Anyday-Anywhere  let’s get it over with … COME ONNNNNNNNNNNNNNN

– Exercise: Passionately

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– First thoughts waking up: Christ.. 6:15 AGAIN .. late again ..missed that sexy girl running early morning 🙂

– Food: Anytime-Anyday-Anywhere

G
– Greatest Fear: Dieing a slow death.. want to go like Go went gone …

– Goals: Being Happy

– Get along with your parents: Yes

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– Hair Color: Black

– Happy: Yes

– Holiday: Amrikaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

I
– Ice Cream: not a fan .. but if it’s there then wont leave it 🙂

J
– Jewelry: Ear pierced..

– Job:  Love it

K
– Kids: Love the

– Kickboxing or karate: Karate A la Bruce leee eeeeeeeeeeeeeeee haaaaaaa

– Keep a journal?: Yes in my Diary

L
– Love: What is Love.. need to know that first

– Laughed so hard you cried: Oh Yesssssssssss

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– Milk flavor: aingg I thought Milk flavour is the Milk flavour

– Movies: Action- Psychological thrillers

– Motion sickness: Nope..

– McD’s or BK:    None.. Daal roti khao prabhu ke gun gao..

N
– Number: 11 and that by the way is TWO number ONE’s   ( sorry stolen from Nu) he he he Now beat that TWO number ONESSSSSSSSSSS a bigger MUUUU HA HA HA HAAHAH ..

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– One wish:  wish all my friends have a happy life and the enemies well WHo cares !!

P
– Perfect Pizza: Thin and Crispy.. with a lot of stuffing Chicken-Ham-Bacon-sausages-Mixed peppers-Jalapenos and Pineapple

– Pepsi/Coke: Neither (Santre ka juice milega kya ) Orange juice please 🙂

– Perfume/Cologne: Who needs one When I smell amazing… 🙂

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– Quail: never Tasted it :O

R
– Reason to cry: I am stupid sentimental dumb emotional Idiot .. I guess, you get the hint to the reply to this question..

– Reality T.V : Not interested .. got enough reality in my life why watch others

– Radio Station: don’t listen

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– Song: A lot of favourites. Gurdas Mann’s MASTI MANA MEHKHANAYA..

– Shoe size: 10

– Salad Dressing: Not that hi fi.. Salad is good enough Naked Why Dress it ..

– Skinny dip: Whats that !!!!!!!!!!!

– Strawberries/Blueberries : Strawberries

– Sport:  Anytime… Hockey/cricket will PS3 and Xbox games count 🙂

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– Tattoos?: No
– Thunderstorms: Lightening

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– Unpredictable: sometimes, especially when i am angry ..

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– Vacation spot(s): got a lot to see yet will tell later .

W
– Weakness: Bad Temper, Patience (got none), too emotional , Idiot blah blah blah

– Who makes you laugh the most: Life

– Worst Weather?: Winters in UK

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– X-Rays: Would be fun to see at airport security oooooooh what did I say he he he

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-Year it is now: 2011

-Yellow: visit here to see… Yellow

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– Zoo animal: Dare humans to leave them open and then go near them, We are hypocrites and the worst animals ..

Finished .. Do take it up please would be fun reading what everyone has to say 🙂  Happy Weekend People…

PS:- I know a lot of friends have tagged me , I will take all the tags one by one and thanks for the aways given by all you lovely people Will publish them too very soon My oscars 🙂

BlogJunta - An ode to the Blogosphere

Over the last few weeks and months I have read a lot on the topic, it has ranged from people saying Men are the worst thing ever , how women will be happy without men . Men calling how women behave etc etc etc.. I have gone and put my views on a few of the blogs where the articles have written the replies to some have been funny and made me smile.

So let’s be frank and throw away all the hesitations we have, Slut walk is/was organised by people to let other people know that it’s not the women who invite men to rape them by the way they dress up ,  That is what I think is the MAIN point although there are a billion branches to it which my small mind cant cope with.

I am writing this post to put my views on all this Walks , holding discussions , meetings etc as far as I am concerned Dont help there are reasons behind that, Has a walk or a demonstration ever helped anyone and I mean that in context to OUR country INDIA, not referring to any other nation because I don’t believe taking examples of other nation will help us , things don’t work the same in our nation.

My question is to all the people (male-female and any other category which is human included) .. the reason I put that in brackets is I am sure someone out there reading this will say I am talking only of females , yeah I get that a lot so to be POLITICALLY CORRECT I put all..  right the question is will this walk really help.. or has it helped ..

Again please hold your horses and take your fingers off that trigger .. and listen to what I have to say

I am not undermining anything, I totally support all kinds of walk , dharna’s , agitations etc .. BUT my question is to all those who are quiet vocal,

what will they do if they found out that the person who eve teased or raped or molested is from their own house.. will they still want that male to be castrated …

All these crimes are done by a Male (again please I mean MAJORITY) though females too do it but lets assume here its a male who is the culprit .. Dont you think we should be teaching  the MEN the male in our own house , in our own room for things to make a difference, I strongly believe that Once that happens then the things will change.

I feel that the BASIC MENTALITY of a  MALE needs to be changed..  After all the rapist or the man who is eve teasing , or even thinking of it .. IS from our society and maybe from our own home ..

1. How many people will be there in the march, Pardon me for being a idiot but as far as i understand a Indian mindset many of them in the march will be going back to there own home shutting the door and then BITCH about it, Tell me if i am wrong in that …

2. How many of the people actually in the march will go home and to there Husband-Son-Father and point out to them that the way they look at a girl is not good.

3. How many MEN who are supporting this march will on a friday night get drunk or have a few drinks and then do the same thing against which they are standing up now. by this i dont mean they will go and Rape or molest someone I mean talking amogst their own friends .. Oh how sexy that girl is , look at her legs , this and that…

4. A baby boy grows , starts school , comes back home after a few days Mommy is probably the first one to ask “KOI GF banai”..  A girl is taught and instructed about social conduct, given guidelines about how to dress and behave in public in general. But a boy is seldom/never taught about these things at home esp with regard to conduct towards girls. He learns from his peers, from the media which shape up his misguided notions which slowly get entrenched. Something needs to be done in this direction too.  (copied this from Ajay’s comment..)

I am copying “It is cool to address women as chick, babe, figure, item..It is cool if you are known for your ‘long legs’…It is cool to ignore certain men who ‘compliment your gorgeous shirt/top’ with all the wrong intentions..it is cool to get a million likes when you wantedly put up a pic of you lounging by the beach ( yes, I know some ex-classmates who will do anything for attention. They are still insecure like hell. The funny part is they are showered with attention only when they put up such pics. I am in no way supporting ‘it is women who provoke men’ policy but I am convinced it is because of low self-esteem and insecurity that is making them stoop so low. I have also come across men who have asked them to think again.)”

I totally agree with the above ..

5. I also beleive that  If a woman is dressed a certain way, it does NOT mean that she’s looking for sex!.. But then I would not want a female who I know walking on the road half naked,  as a prostitue would walk.. Again YES I know how they dress and walk.  I know many out there probably wriggling there fingers to put in a comment How do i know, or how can i see.. Well my answer is Look at the one you care for and love , thats how they NOT DRESS.. hope you got a reply

I was brought up by parents who taught me how to treat a woman, I was always told that I should watch how i behave outside since I have sisters and I would not like them teased or hassled. DO you teach your son-husband-father this … Did you protest when a male in your family said something derogatory about a female in front of you.

Do have a think and let me know….

Child Abuse – Signs and Symptoms

Child abuse is any form of physical, emotional or sexual mistreatment or lack of care that leads to injury or harm.

It commonly occurs within a relationship of trust or responsibility and is an abuse of power or a breach of trust. Abuse can happen to a child regardless of their age, gender, race or ability. Abusers can be adults (male or female) and other young people, and are usually known to and trusted by the child and family

Although these signs do not necessarily indicate that a child has been abused, they may help adults recognise that something is wrong. The possibility of abuse should be investigated if a child shows a number of these symptoms, or any of them to a marked degree:

Sexual Abuse

  • Being overly affectionate or knowledgeable in a sexual way inappropriate to the child’s age
  • Medical problems such as chronic itching, pain in the genitals, venereal diseases
  • Other extreme reactions, such as depression, self-mutilation, suicide attempts, running away, overdoses, anorexia
  • Personality changes such as becoming insecure or clinging
  • Regressing to younger behaviour patterns such as thumb sucking or bringing out discarded cuddly toys
  • Sudden loss of appetite or compulsive eating
  • Being isolated or withdrawn
  • Inability to concentrate
  • Lack of trust or fear of someone they know well, such as not wanting to be alone with a babysitter or child minder
  • Starting to wet again, day or night/nightmares
  • Become worried about clothing being removed
  • Suddenly drawing sexually explicit pictures
  • Trying to be ‘ultra-good’ or perfect; overreacting to criticism

A child may be subjected to a combination of different kinds of abuse.
It is also possible that a child may show no outward signs and hide what is happening from everyone

Sexual development progresses through a number of different phases:

  • infancy
  • young school age
  • pre-adolescence
  • adolescence

Each stage has behaviours which are considered ‘age-appropriate’., although it is also normal to a see a child exhibiting behaviour from the age group immediately above or below them.

If a child has learning difficulties or behavioural difficulties, it is important to consider their developmental stage.

Many adults are uncomfortable when they see children displaying sexual behaviour. Our judgements are affected by age, gender, personal experiences, cultural background, religious beliefs and profession.

It is normal for children of all ages to play and experiment and be curious about their own and each other’s bodies.

Ask yourself the Following questions

1.    Does the child seem ‘normal’ for their age?
2.   Do they seem emotionally or socially withdrawn?
3.   Are they unusually aggressive?
4.   Does the child seem dirty or smelly?
5.   Are they bruised or cut in any way?
6.   Is the child left at home by themselves?
7.   Are they left out late at night?
8.   Is their home clean and tidy?
9.   Does the child spend time with their family?
10. Do they seem to have a good relationship?

And Talk to your Kids… Always

Your child might not be abused but they might have Seen something happen to some other child, Talking is the best and most powerful tool we have.  Understand this that Sometimes children do not realise that certain behaviour is OK in private but not in public. Or they do not realise that their behaviour is upsetting or harming other children.  They may be uncomfortable talking about sexual issues and may also be worried they are in trouble so your tone and manner are very important. Or you might see this happening to other kids in your locality SPEAK UP.

I decided to do this on mondays been very inspired by fellow bloggers especially NU, since she comes out with some beautiful hindi songs.. I am going to do these with Punjabi songs, since not many blogs are catering for this, although the whole of india listens to the punjabi bhangra numbers especially on occasions .. I have been to a lot of places and its funny watching people dance to the songs.. especially down south 🙂 But out country is so diverse KUDOS to the great nation..

Most of you if you listen to the song carefully, you will understand

A guy reminiscing his Village, how the days were …

Pind diyan Galiyan :- the streets of my village

Have fun people .. Hope you all understand.. I have put the lyrics too

Bachpan Chala Gaya, Jawani Chale Gayi                           (Childhood has gone .. Youth has gone too)
Zindagi Di Keemti Nishani Chale Gayi                                (The most precious moments have gone )
Murh Murh Yaad Satave Pind Diyaa Galiyaa Di             (again and again the memories of my village torture me )
Hoka Dindi Phirdi Bibi Thaliya Di                                        (the lady selling stuff in the village )
Sasti Lai Lao Darjan Kele Faliya Di                                     (cheap good she is selling bananas etc… )
Gurhti Kaun Duawe Gurh Diyan Dallian Di                     

 (Gurhti = The first grain given to a child is called GURHTI.. it is said that   one  who gives the child will grow up like them, hence a elder intelligent person is asked and in those days on in villages it was usually  GUD.. unpurified sugar.. )

Murh Murh Yaad Satave Pind Diyaa Galiyaa Di
Pind Diyaa Galiyaa Di, Pind Diyaa Galiyaa Di

Maa Di Halla Sheri Sher Bana Dindi                                           (mothers words can turn a you into a lion)
Te Adh Rirhke Da Chanha Mooh Nu Laa Dindi                      (she would put the whole bowl of milk to ur mouth)
Hun Vi Haasi Aundi Vaghdiya Nalliyan Di                             (still laugh at silly things runny Nose)

Murh Murh Yaad Satave Pind Diyaa Galiyaa Di
Pind Diyaa Galiyaa Di, Pind Diyaa Galiyaa Di

Majha Diyan Poocha Farh Ke Taari Laun Diya                         (the bathing in river hold a cows tail)
Kaun Bhulayu Galla Yaari Laun Diya                                           (who can forget the friendship of those days)
Kad Rut Aa Ke Tur Gi Kachiya Kalliyan Di                                 (when did the season change of childhood)

Murh Murh Yaad Satave Pind Diyaa Galiyaa Di
Pind Diyaa Galiyaa Di, Pind Diyaa Galiyaa Di

Do Manjeya No Jorh Speaker Laggne Nahi                                  (put two old BEd together to put the SPEAKERS of old gramophones)
Jehre Vaaje Vajj Gaye Murh Ke Vajjne Ni                                   (The songs that were sung wont be SUNG AGAIN)
Manak Hadh Muka Gaya Naviyan Kalliyan Di                           (Kuldeep MANAK is a old singer who sang when insturments were not                                                                                                                         there)

Murh Murh Yaad Satave Pind Diyaa Galiyaa Di
Pind Diyaa Galiyaa Di, Pind Diyaa Galiyaa Di

Je Gurdas Nu Tu Marjaane Kehndi Na, Oh Ni Maaye Meriye        (if my mother had not loved me)
Marjaane Di Pora Keemat Paindi Naa                                                     (No one would have know who i was)
Rarhak Maarni Paindi Surme Dalliyan Di                                             (before we put SURMA in our eyes we have to grind it fine)

Murh Murh Yaad Satave Pind Diyaa Galiyaa Di
Pind Diyaa Galiyaa Di, Pind Diyaa Galiyaa Di