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I think its my face or just me that gets this reaction from people.. So there is this new App called #shpock. Its like Ebay where you can advertise unwanted stuff , people can bid for it and then you sell or buy.

But unlike #Ebay this one does not have any safety nets so dodgy people get to rip one-off, I had a similar experience where by a IPAD was advertised for some Amount, I was interested in getting one so I offered a Price of £275/-  if I get it fine if not then also it was fine as I am not that desperate to buy one.

The seller seemed to be genuine but I had been stupid enough to not Read the Reviews , there were just a couple at that time which were not good, Anyway I get a reply from this person to message them on a Phone number 07576560137, so I did, I offered to pick up the item myself , but the person was adamant to get it posted, Still I did not think this could be a scam.

I got a Message that she is ready and accepted my offer AND then the drama started about how to pay for the item, I did not want to pay in advance as I had no clue who this person was and she was adamant on posting, She asked me if she can post , I gave my answer that if she can trust then yeah go ahead post it to me and I will transfer the money the moment I got the item.

She then came with the idea that Half the money first and half on receipt, I was still not happy So I offered to pay £50/- as advance and the rest on receiving the item.  I had a reason that is she was willing to trust me for £225/- then she would be a genuine person, But the clever she had different ideas (to her £50 was better than £0).. She readily agreed to it and I don’t know why I just did not give it a single thought that all this time , This person had not even asked me the address she was going to sent the Item to, I am such a DUMB idiot.

I then transferred 50 pounds to the given account number , She promised to post the item the next day it was only about a few hours later that my mind WOKE up like a TUBE LIGHT.. how is she going to send, she has not got my address 🙂  that’s when I texted her , and since then NO replies from her and it seems she has blocked me on whatsapp, I tried calling the number but the calls never went through.

Now almost after a month I could see activity on her profile and she is back to the same plan, putting stuff for sale and then asking people to Transfer the money as she will only post, People are saying they can pick up but NO she will only post, wants the money in advance. I wrote a lot of messages on here Time line to Refund the money.. Even wrote that this person is a CHEAT and wont send the item, But cleverly she has deleted all the messages.

To make matters WORSE if you go the #SHPOCK help on the App it has FAQ’s on everything BUT if you are duped. So the site is happy to see people get ripped off as long as the Site is working ,  at least on #Ebay one is safe via #paypal and if things go wrong then money is refunded, Although I have been in Communication with them and They are trying to help.

This whole episode has left me so angry I mean everyone is out there willing to dupe you, no thoughts are given as to how hard it is to earn money Or maybe I am a born sucker,  this person sent a text to me saying her GrandDad had passed away and I was so concerned , I am offering my condolences to her, Also saying that its OK,  she should go and take care of all that is going on in her life, and when she is back I can come and pick up the item, I mean people can even use the Death of a family member (that is if it was genuine) to their own benefit.

I am such a RETARD..

Putting on snapshots of the communication I had with this person and You can see what a PLONKER I AM  🙂 I feel disgusted with myself.

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WhatsApp Communication 🙂

 

Sadly Since it was a wire transfer and with my own accord the Bank can’t do anything, I have written to them but they have not had any replies from the Account into which I have paid the money, I think the person has actually stolen someone card and using it , that is why she was so desperate for me to put the money right away, so she can withdraw.

Strangely enough I did get a message from another user saying the same about stolen card but till then the damage had been done

 

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I did Get an Email from #Shpock and Later on a Message on Twitter saying they have Blocked the account ,  but that I have to see, I will put it up next post…

Ah well you learn something new everyday and I learnt what a DORK I am .. 🙂

So if anyone is using this APP please be aware of the Scamsters especially near by the Post code of NN18  – CORBY area.

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I have been reading a lot on how women are treated badly and how it should all be equal, I got no qualms against anyone but I do think that not everyone is same and people of all kinds take advantage of every situation men-women both.  There are a lot of people out there who are taking advantage of the new laws that have come up ..

So today i will tell you a true story and you tell me who is wrong .. My brother in law “S”  is married To “R” and lives happily in delhi, they have a beautiful daughter. I am very close to him, Now my sister in law has a younger brother “B” who also shifted to Delhi as a career move and stays with them .  About 3 years ago “B”  got married, I could not go for the wedding due to some reasons, The last time I had met my cousin and every one was in 2008 , at that time there was not even a talk about this marriage i am talking of.

I am making this point because you all will be highly astonished what has happened when people make a mockery of law and how the law’s that have been made for the uplift of women in our society are used for personal gains.. So remember this Point 2008 I had last met my cousin his wife , her brother.

2009 february time the brother got married to a girl who was still studying in the final year, They got married end of february, so after marriage within a week or so she went back to the parents house to prepare for the exams that she had to appear in March, After her exams she came straight to Delhi to stay with her husband. who was still sharing the house with my brother and wife although he had been looking for a apartment all this time, luckily for the new they got a place of their own soon and moved into a new one, this all went on till may-june time.

During all this time the girl had not visited her parents or her in-laws , as they were still admist looking for a new apartment , finding a job , setting up a home etc etc , I mean we all know the drill.

In July something happened I don’t know what , some arguments amongst the husband-wife , whatever , the girl packed her bags and went to her house…

So other than the reason of the argument which I don’t know this is all that has happened, this was followed by the usual boy trying to bring her back, the parents went to bring her back but she did not come at all.

So the girl just spent a few days in the start of her wedding in her in laws house, then the boy left her in her parents house and came to Delhi in april or may whenever the exams finished lets say april.. In July she went back that is may-june-july assuming she went on 31st July .. 3 whole months.

All this trying to patch up things went on for some time, In the end to Cut the story short divorce proceedings started.. which has been going on for long, please don’t ask me the details as I have none and this post is not about that.. NOW the latest I got to know is she has made an allegation that she was BEATEN up badly by her in-laws .. THE police was so quick to react the parents of the boy were arrested and taken to the police station where they spent a night before their lawyer got the bail done..

Other than that also the allegation of dowry which I must say as is a tradition in Punjab, it was one of those hight end weddings where a lot of give and take happened, So fair enough I got no qualms over that the Girls side wants all the dowry back, Which as far as i know has been returned BUT the boy’s side did an Intelligent thing they made sure when they returned the items it was done Via the Court so each and every item was written, but the girls and her parents have left no stone unturned to make false allegations against the family.

I mean when was she beaten in the first 5 -6 days she spent in the in -laws house if that the case then she had gone back to her parents house , WERE THEY BLIND NOT TO SEE THE BRUISES THEN.  After that She never met the in-laws so When did they beat her.  If the husband had beaten her up then again she had packed her bags and gone home again were her parents so blind they did not see their daughter bruised AGAIN.

The reason Why I am writing this note is and I had asked you all to make sure you remember that I had last met my cousin in 2008, Well In the FIR that was lodged where by it was said that she was BEATEN up, GUESS WHOSE NAME is in the list of people who BEAT her .. YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS   BIKRAMJIT SINGH MANN’s name and I have not even met the girl , I have not even seen her picture let alone met her.

I got to know of this the other day when I run up home to enquire about land-crop etc from the caretaker, He Told me that Police came LOOKING FOR ME .. He also told me my cousin had been arrested and had to spend a day in jail, SO I rung my cousin who tell’s me don’t come till I say so, because if police comes to know I have come to india I might get arrested .. and I was like WTF.. are they so stupid , I live in UK thousands of miles how the hell did I beat this woman and when did I do that.

How did the Police or law or whatever register the complaint which had my details in it, DID They not enquire who or where I was,  WHen they went to my house to do whatever they went for, they got the details that I live in UK why they still have my name in the list.

Whats more amazing is how did this girl and her family find out my name and details and everything , I mean I am not related to them even, I have met my cousins in-laws only once in my life , when they had come for the last rites of my father in 2007, that was the first and last time I was introduced to them.

Now please people tell me what is this and when I write at other posts as a comment that some people use the change of law to their advantage I got lots of replies which were like taunting me .. Here we go this is a true story lets see how many of those who gave me a thumbs down or wrote those comments against me , I ask them the question What do you have to say about this .. Is this the right way to do things or IS THE WOMAN WHO IS ACCUSING ALL THESE THINGS IS SHE RIGHT in doing what she is doing..

Whatever the reason of their fight may be , if she wants a divorce then why does she not just sign the documents and get it over with move on with her life and lets others move on too, why is she putting these false allegations, even if they are true WHY has she dragged me into it when I don’t even know her.

Aven duniya dewe duhai
Jhoota paundi SHOR
Te Apne dil ton puch ke VEKHO
ki kaun nahin hai CHOR
                             

                               World is going on about useless things All this noise is just a LIE
                               Ask your own heart Who is NOT a  Thief

 
te ki main jhoot boliya
te ki main kufur toliya
te ki main Zehar Kholiya

                                Do I lie, do I poison

Oye Haq dooje da maar maar ke
Bante Log ameer
Main ihnu kehenda CHORI
Duniya kehendi Taqdeer 

                               Stealing the others RIGHT
                               People Get Rich
                               I say its Robbery
                               World proclaims it to be Destiny

te ki main jhooht boliya
te ki main Zehar Kholiya

vekhe Pandit Gyani Dhyaani
daya dharam de bande
ram naam japed
te khande Gaushaalla de CHANDE

                                Have seen all the pundits , Gyani’s  and all religious People
                               They take RAM’s Name all the time but eat the Funds from charity

te ki main jhooht boliya
te ki main kufur toliya
te ki main Zehar Kholiya

SACHE faansi Chadde Vekhe
Jhootha mauj  udave
kehende RAB di MAYA
Main kehenda Anaye

                                The righteous are hanged Liars have FUN
                               People say it’s all God’s doing I say it’s WRONG DOING

te ki main jhooht boliya
te ki main kufur toliya
te ki main Zehar Kholiya

                       (Do I lie, do I poison )

This post might not be liked by many but over the years and with a few experiences that I have had in this life, I have found that on the whole We the people have somehow managed to master the art of cheating, lieing , disloyal basically the art of anything that would hurt the other human being.

Lets have a look at the above statement that I just made, have a think and look around yourself or anywhere, relationships these days don’t work as when it started it was different and now after some time people realise that what impressed them most about the other person simply does not exist, it never did cause it was sold to them at the start with a blatant, shameless lie.. For which we fell and now suddenly the truth dawned on to us and we found the REAL THEM…

Look at the way media plays around us creating this big world full of lies or stuff which may not have existed , what we think as truth turns out to be a big lie and what we thought was a lie was in fact the truth.. I mean media turns anything into ANYTHING… if you get the zest of it; I recently posted an ad on Harvey that just shows how we are influenced by media…

We are all the more inclined and are totally devoted to do things to create expectations which we know we are not going to fulfil especially towards people we say we love or care for ..

A few examples I picked out for example What do you guys think about BOTOX why was it invented, Well I feel that too was invented so we could LIE about our age it’s another thing that we have started using it to enhance our looks and other body parts depending on who or WHAT we are ..

Same way the Lipstick It was not initially about making lips look bright and pretty. It was about hiding black, chapped, smoker lips or covering up thin, pursed, ugly lips and giving a woman a more inviting, more pleasant look. This was fine as long as you did not take the woman home and wake up the next morning beside her in bed and discover that, in the bright light of morning and minus her makeup, hair extensions, coloured lenses and double push up bras, she looked nothing like the woman you had dated the night before.

We all are always looking for a new option constantly since we are disappointed with the ones we have at the moment ,  I am on a Orange mobile contract with a Xperia X10 but I want the company to give me a new Iphone 4 on the same contract, ok they say NO..  so I get angry at them and threaten to change the providers , They also add a juicy bit to it Ok Mr. Mann we will give you 50 picture messages a month and 100 minutes of video calls free for each month, so Mr. Mann is happy but we forget that they have all there infrastructure set up , does it matter to them if they give me a few more messages I am still paying over the top for the top end handset which obviously after showing off for a week or two will lose its charm and will again be just a Mobile which I want to change to Iphone 5 launching in June 🙂  (Ooooh with that I bet, I have started the rumour mills running too)

Iphone 4 promised so much but it failed at delivering and it’s got umpteen problems, cause that what happens, promise more than one can deliver at least something will be delivered is the idea , That explains continuing shifts in brand loyalty, and frequent breakdowns in relationships of trust.

A FACT… trust is the first casualty in the Age of Consumerism, even marriages are built on this no wonder divorces are so rampant. Hence one feels all cheated especially on the things that you have been fantasising like the lust for a woman and then discovering that her gorgeous assets are silicon-based.  Thats Cheating…

The new thing that has come up PANTS for men who have sagging bums, it’s like the bras that came to boost the size of women’s Asset .  Just imagine how both the couple would feel when they take their clothes off and find the CHEATING 🙂  I am sure a few people can come with other ideas to design clothes that would help the opposite genders to go WOW !!!   but then why am I talking about men I don’t think it justifies if women have been doing it for so many years and getting away it then why not men 🙂 I wonder where this war to cheat will take us…

To all those liars and cheaters .. Cheers to you all Have fun