Here we are On the first day of a brand new year, First of all let me wish everyone reading this a VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR..

2015 has been OK, usual and to be frank I have got used to the usual one now too much happiness and I might just have a heart attack and Die.. I surly don’t want that to happen:)

As in previous years  I have met so many new people over my blog which has always been a highlight of my years, but that came with some heartache too , as some near-dear one’s no longer wish to know me. What hurts more is that there has been no reason for that , well at least that is what I feel, but unless I am told I would not know.

Relationships have always been a heartache for me, for some reason it seems I get too close or friendly or emotionally attached to people TOO SOON, the rest of the world does not work that way, people have become intelligent,  and although I have been trying my best to change myself, I let myself down every time. Hopefully one day I will get or become as the world is 🙂

I been having this in my bucket list for a long long time, yet I have never been strong enough to change myself , to be how people are hence this particular item is still in my bucket list for the new year.

There have been a few highlights this year, some worth mentioning the medal which was in start of the year 🙂 .

I did the January blogathon this year and failed miserably so am not even going to attempt it in the new year, I am not capable of doing it, posting a post each day of the Month.

So all in all I have had a ok year it had its usual up’s and down’s , saying that I also feel that what will it be without the ups-downs , here’s hoping 2016 is equally good, with all its ups and downs to spice up the life. I don’t mind that at all as long as I have all the lovely people around.

I also want to say a Big Thank you to everyone who reads all the crap I write, All the ones who visit me and All you beautiful human beings who have made this blog a special place. I had written a poem for everyone sometime , which I am resharing here again as I still mean it with all my heart. To all My friends and All who visit this blog.

Over years I have made some very good friends Even if we have not met , or chatted maybe talked once or twice over the years, But It does seem that I know them very well reading there articles. I have some favourites too, and for some I am favourite.. Let me please Take this opportunity to say THANK YOU to everyone who click on the link knowingly or unknowingly .. Thank you for all the comments, a lot of you know and I have been blamed with that too, That I am comment hungry.. OH YES no denying that I love the comments coming , But If I have forced you to come then please I am sorry.

Some of you have stood by me in my personal problem times and Good times .. Some of you hate me , some love me .. What I have found is its true things change.. Change in Inevitable , Some have just brushed past, Some who stood by me THEN have turned their back now, but that is life.

Thank you for all the emails you have sent, The phone calls and Sms Messages.

This post is again dedicated to All the people who read what I write. The ones who are younger than me let me say I love you all , All who are elder to me I respect you all.

Over the time I am sure I have offended a lot of you out there Let me take this opportunity to say Sorry to anyone and everyone who I let down for any reason..

I am sorry

Please let By gone’s be By-gone’s and let’s be friends again, life is too short to hold grudges of any kind. I am sorry VERY SORRY from the bottom of my heart. I am going to quote my favourite saying which i have used so many times on this blog…

Chaman main ikhtilat rangon boo se baat banti hai
hum hi hum hain to kya hum hain
tumhi tum ho to kya tum ho

I would like to Extend my hand of friendship to all those who are there.. God bless you all, have a good day , Thanks for reading this And here’s WISHING YOU ALL ONCE AGAIN A VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR..

May all your dreams come true in the year 2016,

May you dream more/NEW Dreams.

GOD BLESS and Love you all..

Let the Coming new year be better than all that have gone by

  • Vow to do something that you have always wanted to do but could not find time to do so
  • Call up a forgotten friend
  • Drop an OLD GRUDGE and replace it with some pleasant memories ,
  • Vow not to make a promise that you don’t think you can keep,
  • Stand up and walk Tall. You’ll look Ten times younger.
  • Don’t be afraid to say I love you Say it again .. They are the best words in the world.

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and Something for Fun 🙂

 

 

Wordless Wednesday :- To All My Friends

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Comments
  1. The whole post read very goody goody till I came across the demand for vodka, chocolate, Italian food, wine or airline ticket…Looks like the start of a demanding New Year 😀 😀

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  2. Trying to please everybody, or even many people, is a recipe for disaster – for us! Just be as you are, Bik. Right people will find you 🙂

    Destination Infinity

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  3. Happy New Year!!
    Please do share chocolates and Italian food with me too 😛

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  4. Firstly wishing you a cracking 2016 my friend, hope all your dreams come to fruition, good things always happen with good people, never forget that.
    The level of readership and comments on your blog and stark evidence of how wonderful a person you are and how you speak from the heart, very few in this day and age it seems keep like a closed book. Never change yourself for anyone, well unless it’s your parents, other half or kids.. Just a few exceptions.
    Will keep in touch and who knows a meet up on the cards.
    D.

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  5. Maddie says:

    Happy New Year!!

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  6. amira says:

    You definitely have a big heart. May your new year be filled with happiness, contentment, health and wealth. And also lots of wisdom – converted into words on to your blog so that we can also benefit from your wisdom 🙂
    Have a great one.

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    • Bikramjit says:

      Thank you so muchhhhhhhhh, glad you think that way about me … thank you for all the wishes…Thank you so much… wishing the same for you toooooooooooo

      wisdommmmmmmmmm you say 🙂 awwwwwwww I am blushing now 🙂 he he he he

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  7. The beauty of new year is that it lets you begin again.. .. All the best for the coming year…. 🙂

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  8. sjscribbles says:

    Happy New Year, Bikramji ! You are truly a child at heart 🙂

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  9. New year, new hopes and, new beginning 🙂

    I really really liked the last part, the image… 😀 😀

    Happyyyyyyy Newwwwwwww Yearrrrrrrr !!!!

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  10. I think people have just stopped commenting and not reading your blog. I am one of those persons who is reading blogs on phone when baby is sleeping and doesn’t have time to comment often. But I have not missed reading a single post 🙂 happy new year!

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  11. Raj says:

    Bikram…. it has always been such a pleasure reading you. You right straight from the heart and it travels straight into mine. 🙂 So… I will always be a fan of your writing and you.

    Wish you a very happy new year. Have lots and lots of fun.Keep writing.

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  12. Happy New Year mate! Hope 2016 brings you a lot of happiness…not because you need a heart attack but because you deserve to experience happiness, the type that gives you a massive rush. Take care

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  13. pixie says:

    We had Italian food today!! 😀 😀
    Happy 2016 Biks!! 🙂
    And you are one of the nicest people I know! So, I doubt you need to say sorry to anyone!!

    Wishing you a fabulous year ahead! 🙂

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  14. Hey, dude no need to be sorry or apologetic and its your right to have a different opinion. You are a great friend and now open the whisky and wine, to kick start the year in style.
    Happy New Year 2016.

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  15. Its the best way to start the new year by expressing your feelings. This would lighten your heart.

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  16. onkar kedia says:

    Nice post, coinciding with the beginning of a new year

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  17. Nagini says:

    Happy happy new year Bikram..Have a fabulous new year ahead..Keep rocking as always 🙂

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  18. sm says:

    beautifully expressed , i think it happens sometimes blog friends stop visiting or stop giving comments, and we do not know reasons.
    Happy new year and hope your friends will come back

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  19. Happy new year, Bikram! As you have said here, it is not easy to please all, all the time! Just be yourself. You don’t need friends who don’t appreciate the ‘real you’.

    I never attempt to join the ‘one day one post’ marathon group! I can never do that I know. But appreciate people who do write good posts everyday. Born writers!

    Happy new year once again! Be happy always!

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    • Bikramjit says:

      True true we cant keep everyone happy. I am trying my hardest to be me and make myself happy. oh yes I am in awe of the people who have joined they are so Gooooooooooooooooooddddddddddddddd ….
      Thank you so much… wishing the same for you toooooooooooo

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  20. Anita Menon says:

    Happy New Year Bikramji! It has been long that I haven’t caught up with your writing here. Here’s wishing you fewer heartaches in 2016 and plenty of wonderful things, people and posts

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    • Bikramjit says:

      Look who is here.. 🙂 How are you doing and family. yes its been a very long time … Thank you so much… wishing the same for you toooooooooooo thank you thank you..

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  21. Lavender says:

    Happy happy new year bikram. (: And come on you should join the Blogathon.. It’s never tooooo late!

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    • Bikramjit says:

      I wish I wish .. but I just dont get time to do things these days .. a lot of issues will put up some day 🙂 Thank you so much… wishing the same for you toooooooooooo

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  22. Here’s wishing you a happy, healthy new year! Looking forward to seeing many more posts in the new year!!
    PS: Never call your work “crap” 🙂

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  23. Happy New Year! 🙂 The cartoon is too humorous. I enjoyed reading it. 🙂 Thanks for dedicating this post to readers. 🙂 We bloggers are because readers read what we write. 🙂

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  24. pseudomonaz says:

    Happy new year… 🙂 I am glad I found your blog last year… Always look forward to your comments. 🙂

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  25. Wish you a very happy and rocking Balle Balle New year 2016. Lol..
    Thankyou for the mail and for leading me back to one of the most entertaining blogs I subscribed to. 🙂
    I feel the Blogosphere has changed dramatically in many ways and that includes the quality interactions we used to have only via our blog, Now everybody wants to connect on FB. Thus my blog sees very little comments nowadays. 😦
    So please don;t worry, your blog is as cool as always and so are you!
    Cheers!!!

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    • Bikramjit says:

      Vibhzyyyyyyyyy 🙂 How are you and gooood t osee you oh yes a big balle balle balle to the 2016.
      indeed you are right that blogosphere is changing a log …

      thank you thank you for saying that 🙂 yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

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  26. Amit Agarwal says:

    A truly wonderful post sir! A great new year gift too!!
    May all your wishes come ture 🙂 Dream more 😉 .. (@ last template)

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  27. Wish you a very happy 2016! Wishing you fabulous year!

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  28. purbaray says:

    Here’s to new beginnings and many more memorable moments…..

    Wish you a wonderful New Year.

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  29. You poured your heart out. New year wishes for a healthy and hearty year ahead.

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  30. Roohani Naik says:

    Hey! Happy new year!!

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  31. Happy And graceful New year Bikramji. …

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  32. pins & ashes says:

    wishing you the happiest of new years.. the choicest of blessings and love Bikram. Thank you for the visits and the comments and your posts here.. it has been a fun ride, 2015.. write more.. share more and 2016 will be a very very happy year (to give you a sweet attack)

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  33. Happy new year bukram have a grt year ahead.. Grt share

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  34. Wish you a terrific new year! may all your dreams and wishes come true!!

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  35. the little princess says:

    Happy New Year Bikram! Such a heartfelt post this is! And you have summed up your year wonderfully! Here’s wishing that you achieve everything that you want to this year!!

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  36. jahidakhtar says:

    How was the party Bikram sir? 🙂 Wish you and your family a very happy new year!!

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  37. renu says:

    HAppy new year Bikram!

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  38. inquisitivegeet says:

    Whatever happens, happens for a reason.. and there’s a reason people couldn’t make it to your today.. Wishing you a very Happy new year and may you find great company and greatest friends this year..

    Cheers

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  39. Meera says:

    A heartfelt post, Bikram. With new hopes and dreams, I wish you a new start.. Happy New Year. 🙂

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  40. Trust you will encounter positive energy in the long run, you have the spirit! Great post 🙂

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  41. Maliny Mohan says:

    Have a blasting new year, Bikram! I am late to comment, I know. Still.The post touched my heart. It is always inspiring to read year end posts. Your post was no exception. Write more. Read more:) You are safe, that way 🙂

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  42. Rachna says:

    A very Happy New Year, Bikram. Don’t change to become one with the world. People will come and go but what makes you special is your honest heart and your true character.

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  43. Wish you a fabulous 2016 ahead! 🙂

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  44. MM says:

    Hey Bikram, I have visited your blog after a really long time and I read this post. Can I just say that you apologize too much? I haven’t known you for a very long time and I don’t know you too well, but I know this – you are a good person. If people don’t want you in their lives, it’s their loss,not your. You are better off without such people. Also, thanks for quoting some of my favorite lines in your post
    Chaman main ikhtilat rangon boo se baat banti hai
    hum hi hum hain to kya hum hain
    tumhi tum ho to kya tum ho

    I hope this year is full of joy, peace, health, wealth, good food and better conversations for you.

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    • Bikramjit says:

      Hello

      How are you and yes good to see you after a long time..

      I apologize a lot.. hmmmm I was going to say oh sorry for that ha ha ha ha ha but I will refrain now. .He he he..

      On serious note I do think that we don’t apologise often.. If we do then there will be less confrontations..

      You are right there has to be reason that’s why I apologised that just in case it is my fault then no harm in apologising..

      Thank you so much for those lovely words for me.. and yes my favourite quote too because it says the truth .. The world is beautiful because all of us are in it.. If anyone was missing it would not be that beautiful. .

      Thank you so much…

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  45. Rahul says:

    Nice post Bikramjit! Best wishes for the New year!

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  46. Shailaja V says:

    This was a really heartwarming post, Bikram. I especially liked the fact that you touched upon letting go of grudges since life is too short. The last 6 months, I have lost friends and family, mostly to death and a couple to misunderstandings, but I am grateful for the time they were in my life. Wishing you a healthy, happy and joyous 2016. May you continute to write and connect with more people.

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    • Bikramjit says:

      Life is funny indeed and yes we should be grateful for whatever time we have had with those we care and love, Thank you so much for the wishes… let me take this opportunity to wish you and family a very happy new year tooooooooo

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