Here we are , the 11th of November. I am going to start this post with the following I read long time back..

” when life pulls you,wrenches you, the same life hugs you and kisses you and love you back.. we just need to know to be strong and be positive about life. ” by Aswathy here.

That is such a lovely thought ,  I know LIFE is such that you either love it or you hate it .. and those who love LIFE have a lovely life too and those who hate soon learn how to love life.

Today is a special day too as its Diwali so it seems the whole world is going to celebrate my birthday 🙂 and everyone knows how much i love fireworks, if I could I would light some fireworks all day long, since childhood i have been crazy about fireworks But sadly this year I am not celebrating Diwali due to a family mishap.

Since morning everyone has been sending messages -emails , whatsapp these days has become a necessity.

Before I get carried on let me first of all wish every reader and Visitor.. Wishing you-Your Family and EVERYONE Around you a very happy Diwali


I always say God has been very Kind to me, I am sure he has a special place for me 🙂 Over the years I have had some dreams , actually a LOT of dreams some have come true , some have got lost and hopefully Some more will get fulfilled as time goes on. So today is My birthday too 🙂

11th November 2010

In college we had these dreams that as we grow old and start working, we will become independent , do this and that.. but it’s not that way.. as you grow responsibilities grow, priorities change , looking at the world differs, things which mattered than .. Don’t matter NOW. All those dreams we had, all friends will take up a job in same company and have fun but it was not to be. I am an average person. Everyone or well most people are confident in themselves to a level, but there is always self-doubt, should I do this or that , will I be successful, am I doing the right thing. I have my doubts at times. I also long for what everyone longs for Love, caress, appreciation, (you guys reading this write a comment HOW GOOD IT IS.. yes go on please please please .. he he he he )

In all these years I have done a lot of wild things, a few wishes have come true like


Wanted to fly….. did it ( gliding and then the Flying

Wanted to be a good at sports – I been in nationals for hockey

Wanted to visit places — work in progress, been to Spain-America-Canada-Australia- Brussels- Dubai-Singapore- France-etc etc.

Wanted to do a few of the dangerous sport activities Bungee jumping, parachuting, skydiving, Have done the Sky dive and NOW have given up the idea of bungee jumping , don’t like the idea for some reason.

Wanted to do white water Rafting and other silly things , have managed to do them all now 🙂

I want to go to Disneyland in Florida.. Oh yes I do .. its nothing of being childish .. every person has a child hidden in them.. I do want to go and do it some day …

I also Want to do something like this 🙂  I want to Do this stunt myself .. I told my friend and they said “ARE YOU MAD“… But what fun it would be, and in case it goes wrong then No chance of surviving so all the better, because I would not want to be in an accident and live a broken life.

The one thing I am dyeing to do is go on a Safari in Africa , in a Hot air balloon, Imagine the drift flying you and then in the middle of it Pffft Pfffft Pfffft oooops the engine or whatever  it is stops … and you are slowing going down.. down .. you look down .. GUESS what .. A PRIDE is watching with those sweet innocent eyes , tongues hanging out , occasionally slurping with the thought of fresh MAN MEAT .. YUMMY .. .

Another thing I want to do is drive all the way to India, Yes , drive it all the way to some stages actually had serious talks with a group of maniacs like me to do it , we just did not have that much money to buy the cars , else we just might have done it .. Just imagine .. wow.. I am getting an adrenalin rush just thinking about it… A road trip exploring various places around the world, Turkey, Istanbul,  Greece, Italy,Iran, Austria, Pakistan.. imagine the amazing places. I know a lot of people have done it so why not do it myself. ONE DAY GOD WILLING I TOO WILL.

More maybe next time .. What about you people out there anything ….

  1. Padmaja says:

    May all your dreams come true dear Bikram, God bless!
    Just returned From Greece and Turkey, fabulous, just go for it!


  2. Happy birthday! And happy Diwali to you and all your near and dead ones! You have quite an interesting list going on there. Hope you are able to achieve those and a whole lot more. Have a great year ahead 🙂


  3. rama says:

    A very Happy Birthday to my dearest friend Bikram!
    A Very Happy Diwali Too!
    We all have dreams and goals just as you have said, some come true others are lost, and some we realise we are not interested, and we grow we keep changing our desires, and goals.
    You have almost done everything, and for the rest you have a whole life to accomplish them. I wish you the very best in life


  4. Rajlakshmi says:

    Wish you a very happy Diwali 😀 and hope you get to ride in Disneyland and visit all the places in your list 😀 I love travelling too 😀


  5. Driving to India is a great idea. One family got a huge press recently for having driven all the way to Paris from India and back. I too would love to undertake an adventure like that 🙂

    Destination Infinity


    • Bikramjit says:

      yeah I have been hearing of that family, I had no clue someone had done it already 🙂 well how about me come to india by car and then you join us and we can all drive BACK 🙂 to uk


  6. srividhya says:

    drive all the way to India? wowwwww… May all your dreams come true. Happy Diwali. 🙂


  7. Wishing you a very happy Diwali, Bikram! ☺️


  8. Bungee jumping! I want to do it too…I just want to feel the free fall …don’t know though whether I could gather the courage to do it when I would face it in real. Have done paragliding, though…it was awesome!

    May all your dreams come true, Vikram..wish you a very very happy Diwali… 🙂


  9. Nimmi says:

    Hey dear!
    Wish you a very happy Birthday and a very Happy Diwali too.
    May you enjoy your day and have a beautiful life ahead full of happiness and success.
    P.S. Nice post and love to know BIKRAM too 😉


  10. dNambiar says:

    Nov 11th? I have a friend who shares your birthday.
    Happy Birthday, Bikram.
    May all your dreams come true. Your wishlist sounds like a lot of fun. 🙂

    Hey, and Happy Diwali too. 🙂


    • Bikramjit says:

      all good people have their birhtday on 11th He he he he he .. and very good ones have it on 11th NOVEMBER 🙂 he he he he

      Thank you so much for the lovely wishes. hope you had a good diwali.


  11. Ashwini says:

    Wish you a happy happy Diwali 🙂 May all your dreams come true Bikram 🙂

    You know, Life is always a puzzle. We might figure out things unexpectedly or miss out on things which we thought we might crack, but at the end it is the experience that matters and as long as we get to experiment and experience, then things should be fine 🙂


  12. sm says:

    happy birthday to you


  13. Happy Diwali, Bikramjeet. May all ur dreams come true and send some wishes for me as well:)


  14. Jo says:

    Yee.. So double dhamaka eh? Happy Diwali! And a very happy birthday!
    First of all, let me appreciate you for thinking that God has been very kind to u. Cheers for that super positive attitude. I have seen people blessed with good health, job, car, family, house and decent bank balance whining about what that they don’t have. (like that new gadget with a friend or a better model car and so on) Too much, I would say.I feel like giving a punch right on their face and ask to count their blessing.

    True that our dreams keep changing. Some things we wished to do become meaningless as we grow up.

    You have tried lotsa adventurous stuff. Kudos! Hope you can do the rest on the list SOON. I wish to do some of them some day. Did skydiving at Vegas. Loved it. Driving to India with a bunch of friends is a super crazy n interesting idea too. An Indian family’s epic roadtrip through 11 countries over 111 days was all over the media these day. Wish to read about Bik’s epic road trip some day.

    Wishing you all what you wish for. 😀


  15. Rinks says:

    Happy Diwali….birthday boy! Wishing you a wonderful life ahead….with all those dreams its gonna be wow….!! Just do not stop dreaming.Have a good one today, its your special day 🙂


  16. kinmin says:

    Happy birthday Bikram! Here’s wishing you a life filled with many more of these adventures and things that make you happy! You’re so right – our priorities change with time.. Some dreams get fulfilled, and some get lost along the way! Hopefully the ones that matter the most get fulfilled! 🙂 have a great year ahead! And happy Diwali!


  17. Parul Thakur says:

    Happy belated birthday! Every one celebrated your birthday. That sounds so wonderful 🙂
    It feel so good that you were able to live your dreams and I wish that this goes on forever. Good people should get good things in life 🙂
    Have a blessed year ahead!


  18. wish you a very happy birthday and a great Diwali too 🙂


  19. It is really sad to know about a mishap in your family.
    Happy Diwali and Happy B’day! 🙂
    May all your dreams come true. 🙂


  20. Belated Birthday wishes and a very happy Diwali! 🙂


  21. mypinchofyum says:

    Belated Birthday Wishes to you and a Happy Diwali 🙂


  22. My Era says:

    Belated Birthday wishes rockstar Bikram 🙂
    May all your wishes come true and you have a blessed, happy, content life ahead 😀

    P.S. – From your post I can see how strong your will-power & determination are. Stay the same Bikram cause you rock 😀


    • Bikramjit says:

      THank you so much M.E… How are you and thank you thank you for all the wishes.. me a rockstar YAyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy 🙂

      I am trying my best to be who i am and remain like this always fingers crossed 🙂 🙂

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  23. Bikramjit, hope you had a nice Diwali. May your wish for a Safari in Africa come true soon. 🙂


  24. Gaurav says:

    Happy Birthday and Happy Diwali Bikram!!!


  25. Happy birthday:-) may god gives u everything u desire


  26. Onkar Kedia says:

    Very interesting. May all your safe wishes come true.


  27. Belated happy Birthday and hope you had a great Diwali!


  28. OMG…Life is so busy…that I didn’t get time to read few of my favorite pages only.

    Belated Happy Birthday Bhaaji…Have a fantabulous year ahead 🙂

    and Belated Happy Diwali. I believe it was a great combo this year for you.



  29. Abhilasha S. says:

    Belated Happy Diwali and a very happy birthday. 😊


  30. SG says:

    Happy Birthday to you
    Happy Birthday to you
    Happy Birthday Dear Bikram
    Happy Birthday toooo youuu


  31. Kalpanaa says:

    Happy Birthday Bikram! Your birthday is one day before my daughter’s. Hope it was a good day. Diwali greetings to you too.


    • Bikramjit says:

      Thank you so much… Oh she is a Scorpio too .. We are the BEST 🙂 yayyyyyyyyyyyyy a very happy belated birthday to your daughter and many many happy returns of the day to her.. 🙂


  32. Shilpa Garg says:

    Belated Diwali and birthday wishes, Bikram. Wishing you lots of happiness and good times ahead! Cheers 🙂


  33. wordcoiner says:

    I missed your birthday! 😦 Happy birthday! 😀 Belated hi sahi, wishes hai wahi… Keep writing! It feels good to read your posts since 2010.


  34. anisnest says:

    Belated birthday wishes Bikram.. Wishing you the best in everything good hearted man!!


  35. the little princess says:

    may you get to do everything you want to Bikram! Your enthusiasm is so infectious…it makes me want to have a look at my wishlist too!


  36. Anita says:

    I love the Birthdays quote & also the one you shared about life.
    I feel life is a great teacher. We better learn to be happy! And yes, celebrate!
    Everyday is Diwali 🙂


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