It is all in the NAME
I Think I am sorted for a few more wordless Wednesday topics for a few weeks now 🙂 so WATCH THE SPACE as they say 🙂
Not sure what to understand here .. HELP anyone
Wordless Wednesday (52) – My Name has an Effect – Priceless
Posted: February 11, 2015 in Bikramism, Experiences, funnies, WordlessTags: People, Speechless, Thumbs down, thumbs up, Wordless wednesday
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Me and My Random Thoughts 
Thankfully, facebook doesn’t have dislike button 🙂
Destination Infinity
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Yeah thank god.. else just the name Bikram would bring a million dislikes phewwwwww
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Actually Bikram i won’t talk about facebook instead what was put up there. It is one such that freaks me out. Forget in laws i see some character traits in family members of my own whom the world calls senior citizen and i wonder all the time if and when i reach that age when i will be one such senior will i be behaving just the same. At the moment i feel a victim but then it plagues me to think that there will be a time when i’ll be seen as victimizing people around me too.
Because the truth my dear blogdost is that in many experiences of my own i just saw history repeat itself. Earlier the torch was in my parent’s hands…now it’s in mine…then…
We just have to wait and live to tell… what happens…
🙂
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Exactly .. I also sometimes feel that when i grow old will i also behave like some silly people.. i hope not .. fingers crossed i just hope i die sooner than becoming olddddddddddddd 🙂
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What’s with the thumbs downs?
I agree with you…my mom (bless her soul) used to live in harmony with my sister in law. And there was even a moment when she was there to clean my mom when I wasn’t there. My mom was very sick at that time and needed constant help.
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God bless your SIL.. most live fine its just people who love to talk only about negative all the time they are weird
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Why so many down thumbs up?I dont see anything wrong in your viewpoint!
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That’s why jaish I say it’s the word “bikram” he he he
Hence speechless I got a few more pics to prove the same .. need to change my name it seems
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The bon homie between your sister and her MIl is an exception to the rule.Most Dil and Mll have fragile relationships nurturing a cold war. if not open hostility
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hmmmmm I wish it was not the same sir.. if only everyone can live happyly
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Bikram, this applies not only to DILs who become MILs. It also applies to juniors (at the workplace) who become seniors, and to all similar relationships.
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so very true.. if only people wisen up a bit
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5 thumps down. I go well with my MIL. She has terrific sense of humor and most of the times, one can see us laughing.
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🙂 GOD bless you bothhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
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The problem is that people have preconceived ideas about how their relationship is going to pan out with their in-laws or how in-laws are going to be under threat from the new daughter-in-law. It almosts brings people to pain to call their new family by end mum, dad, son, daughter. It’s a shame and it surely marks the end of living in joint families. Bikram, nothing wrong with your comment, just something wrong with people’s mentality.
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and its this preconceived ideas which are a problem. if people behave normal then things wont go this bad at all .. you are right …
Thank you so much
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I completely agree with your comment. I have a very good relationship with my Mil. That means we both try to make it happen and no blaming just the Mil for all issues.
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GB thank you so much .. most have a good relation at least people who i know and I know a LOT of people ..
takes two to tango ..
you got to be loveable to be loved …
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Trust me,it is more to do with your sister’s SANSKAR.
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Thank you so much Sir…
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This is weird. Thumbs up from me.
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yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy 🙂
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I agree with your point. May we all live in perfect harmony. Then DIL MILenge 🙂
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yes and DIL milna is also important but that will only happen if we give each other a chance
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Yes, the intention, willingness & action is needed from both parties- DIL & MIL!
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so true.. its does take two to tango 🙂
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I agree with your logic here…the different shoes we wear in this lifetime…might as well do justice to it since the next shoe will be tight if not acknowledge the latter one!
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WELL SAID mam… very philosophical but TRUTH
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I don’t see anything wrong in your comment above, Bikram. I think the thumbs down shows the way people think!
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THank you so much .. yes it is the mentality of such people and the worst is they are the ones who want a change in the society.. I guess they have ot CHANGE themselves first
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It might b true with some people but definately nor generic:-) I have a good rapport with my Mil
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I think most of mil and dil get along fine .. its just peoiple have this thing in their mind and the idiotic serials that come on TV dont help either
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I’m the luckiest – No MIL at all!
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he he he he he BUt you might be a MIL one day then what 🙂
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Now that is scandalous! How am I supposed to have a son without marriage?
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Oh ho that’s why I said you might one day..
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Nope. Why would I want to mess up a blissful life?
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ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh 🙂
exactly my sentiments he he he he he
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😀 And why not? Afterall it is also a relationship like so many other relationships and it cannot be generalized!
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You are right it cant be generalised , Thank you so much mam.
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I can never understand the thumbs up and down. All I know is that my mil and I share a cordial, loving relationship. And the credit goes to both of us.
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Me either.. I think If I write anything PRO women I get all the thumbs up .. I just cant understand the mentality of the people ..
you are right it takes Two to tango
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Agreed 100%.
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THank you SG.. 🙂
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Biks, some people, love to pull up a drama, and we live in a world where especially in fiction and films, the sad and the traumatic are considered more happening that the happy ones, so a happy mil-dil, then becomes an aberration, how will a serial like tu tu mein mein or kyunki or the others thrive if not for this idea.. just because somebody says, does not mean they are right.. when they do, reflects them in turn which most of them don’t know..! take it with a pinch of salt
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and likes and dislikes without a comment, as you and I have written about, are always lazy.. 🙂 😀
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he he he he oh YES 🙂
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I know. it is sad that our media does not do much to help the situation .
I need a LOT of salt he he he he
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So true. But I guess a DIL after being tortured by her MIL becomes so used to that behavior that even she starts acting like her. It doesn’t help that the media always portrays a MIL has being cunning and selfish. I surely do hope that my MIL is as nice as your sister’s 🙂
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I am sure you will get a lovely MIL.. dont forget to invite me to your wedding though 🙂
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MIL,DIL ‘mile’, ‘na mile’, dill
both can simply………. Chill
The problem is the “Law” :
Remove Law from MIL
And have a mother !!
Remove Law from DIL
And have a daughter !!
Come to think of it,
What Law has got to do
in / with, human relations ?
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Well SAID sir.. WELL SAID
I wish people understand that and GET That LAW out and have a happy life
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Really?
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OH yes.. REALLY 🙂 I got proof now
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hehehe.. because of this only I fear to write about in-laws in positive light.. Being a woman I am sure if I write something good about MILs in general, I would be gunned down…
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I think i shud learn from this and not write about such things.. I bet if i wrote get separated and go your own way I would have got a lot of thumbs up ….
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Weird! Who would click a Thumbs Down for that?? It’s a Big Thumbs Up from me!
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I have no idea who would but there are people who think that way 🙂
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I don’t know what to say except – why aren’t we friends on Facebook? 😛
and I am yet to figure out why there should be discord between anyone in a family…
differences – yes.. but so much animosity! jeez!
and yes, your sister is one of the lucky ones.. touchwood..
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because I dont have a FB profile 🙂 and I am not supposed to have one too due to some work related problems .. thats all hopefully one day I will 🙂
I totally understand what you are saying the discord is .. well i have no idea.. basically everyone thinks they are right and not bothered what the other is saying or where they are coming from , its all about me me me me 🙂
Thank you
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I agree with you Bikram… Every Tu-tu Me-me happens because of misunderstanding, misinterpretations and insecure feeling… And not to forget that generation gap…
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SO very true .. I hope we grow up and are able to treat others as we want to be treated ourselves ..
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Haha, people are weird sometimes, I guess. It’s absolutely possible that MIL and DIL can live in harmony, in fact be good friends. It’s just that our daily soaps prefer to highlight the other side of it for whatever reasons.
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I think in most homes the case is different then what is portrayed and it also doesnot help the myths we have in our heads which seem to say that a mother in law can never get along with her daughter in law
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How about son in laws and father inlaws? 😛
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indeed .. how about them
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Simply superb! 🙂
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thank you amit sir
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