Day 3:- Funny Things I learnt- My Experiences-2014

Posted: January 3, 2015 in Aging, Blogathon, Blogging, Friends, FriendShip, Lecture, My Thoughts., People, Problems, Reality
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2014 and also 2013 have been a roller coaster year for me , Lots to learn , Although I say that I learnt but I wonder DID I .. I can vouch i will make the same mistakes again as I am yet to learn the art of thinking from mind rather than heart. I am still letting my heart take a lot of control over a lot of issues and stuff involving me – my life. I wonder what is that mantra or HOW does one learn this art, as I mentioned the last couple of days have been very chaotic for some reason the start of every year has been very chaotic for me.

Here is an example remember the Gyan I gave on How to live and Die (2 and 3) I had mentioned about lending money , yes you can guess it right I went ahead and lent some more πŸ™‚ , yeah SHOOT ME PLEASE SOMEONE, as I got carried away with the dialogues how I am like an elder brother to the person, How I am part of family , How he respects me blah blah blah. I just can’t learn from my mistakes, I know he is taking me for a ride a couple of my friends have told me that too buttttttt ALAS ME- MOI- MYSELF are just IDIOTS πŸ™‚ (you guys who know me please stop nodding your heads)

So not sure if this post is valid or that do I have the Right to post this one BUT nevertheless here I go riding on my “god know’s what” cloud Sky high πŸ™‚ yeeeeeeeee haaaaaaaa , Some of the things that I learnt if put in a funny way will include ..

Before that here is a DISCLAIMER alas I get shot for copyright infringements

Disclaimer:- The Following Statements have been taken from different resources from public forums, I have changed some according to my needs , feelings. So if they are infringing anyone’s rights , then I am sorry please let me know ASAP and I shall remove that line as the following is what I have learned and how to put them in English differently I would not know. If I have hurt anyone’s feelings than I am sorry in advance ..

I’ve learned the Saying “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feelIS BULLOCKS.. people whom you have made feel good Will forget within a SECOND.. the only people you have HURT will remember.

I’ve learned that No matter how much some say they are your FRIENDS they never will be , cause they don’t know the meaning of it…

I’ve learned that no matter how much I care Some people are just ARSEHOLES

I’ve learned that it takes years to build up TRUST and it only takes suspicion to destroy it.

I’ve learned that you can get by on charm for about fifteen MINUTES After that, you’d better have a big Wad of money in your wallet or beautiful FACE..

I’ve learned that you shouldn’t compare yourself to others they are more screwed up, then you think…

I’ve learned that we are RESPONSIBLE for what we do Unless we are CELEBRITIES..

I’ve learned that regardless of how HOT or STEAMY a relationship is at first Passion fades, and there had better be a lot of money to take its place …

I’ve learned that the people you care the most about in life are taken from you too soon.. and the less important ones NEVER GO AWAY

I’ve learned that The only people you need in your life are the ones that Prove that they need you in theirs

I’ve learned that You will never know how STRONG you are, Until being strong is the only choice you have left …

I’ve learned that there is a point in your life when you realise Who Matters, Who NEVER DID, Who always Will and Who wont anymore

and last but not the least …

I have learned that you can-not Make Someone love you.. All you can do is STALK them and HOPE they panic and give in.. πŸ™‚

Enough Gyan for a day .. Have a good day everyone πŸ™‚

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  1. SG says:

    Very valuable lessons. Thanks for sharing.

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  2. greenboochi says:

    Each of it is like a gem – Bikram. I particularly liked this -’ve learned that You will never know how STRONG you are, Until being strong is the only choice you have left …
    Thanks for sharing πŸ™‚

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  3. Lavender says:

    Ah! Bikram.. I just woke up and im reading this post … Too much good gyan for the day, this is ! πŸ™‚

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  4. ashwinicn says:

    Wonderful lines, those were. Some were funny too.

    Of course nobody knows whats the best way to handle a situation, because no two people face the same situation. So that is what makes this Life game, challenging and interesting as well πŸ™‚

    So, I’ve always decided to do things which I would like to, and which I would not regret doing. (If it involves saying No to people or Trusting someone)

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  5. Yes, these are called ‘gyans’ πŸ˜›

    Jokes apart..profound words… Love this one most “I’ve learned that You will never know how STRONG you are, Until being strong is the only choice you have left” …very well said..

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  6. Dilip says:

    Bikram very well written! The best mantra as we all know is “If you make friends with your self you will never be lonely ever”! πŸ˜‰

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  7. Seema says:

    Every line was profound Bikram. But the one I have experienced very closely id “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel” IS BULLOCKS.. people whom you have made feel good Will forget within a SECOND.. the only people you have HURT will remember.” So true that! Even you have done 1000 good things them and one instance when you hurt them – they will remember the latter and forget the former.

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    • Bikramjit says:

      SO RIGHT Seema SO VERY right it is that one thing bad you did which will always be remembered… I have learnt to live alone now , I know it is a sad life but at least i am not dependent on anyone

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  8. Seema says:

    You did the same mistake again?!! Before I shoot you, will send you my account number. :mrgreen:

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  9. D says:

    he he…good gyaan! some of this i could very well relate to! Hope you have a more gyaanful 2015!!..:)

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  10. sm says:

    have learned that you can-not Make Someone love you.. All you can do is STALK them and HOPE they panic and give in.. πŸ™‚
    suits for bollywood movies only not real life

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  11. Archana K B says:

    Wise words. How much ever we learn, some habits cannot be changed. Guess you are too good at heart for stopping lending money. πŸ™‚
    All the best for the month long challenge. The tradition poem was full of cheese… Honey Singh can easily make a rap out of it ! πŸ™‚

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    • Bikramjit says:

      So very true.. So true.. Not sure about that if i am good or not , I am normal good for some bad for others … Thank you so much for the wishes I am already struggling …

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  12. Shilpa Garg says:

    Experience is the best teacher, gives a lot of valuable lessons to learn! LOL @ the last one πŸ˜€

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  13. Zephyr says:

    You can claim copyright on those, Bikram! Very valuable lessons learnt the hard way in life.

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  14. Vaayadi Pennu ;) says:

    Mmmm …. i lik3 a couple of ones more than the rest, but true … some are scary like the once you love get taken away! The strength one is so poaitive …

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  15. anisnest says:

    loved this one Bikram “I’ve learned that it takes years to build up TRUST and it only takes suspicion to destroy it.”

    Happy happy new year to you!!

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  16. dnambiar11 says:

    You’ve learnt a lot of hard hitting truths, eh.
    2013 and 2014 have not been my favourite years too. So same pinch. πŸ˜€

    Let’s hope 2015’ll be better. Here’s wishing you a very happy year, lots of good friends, great memories and that light that is at the end of the tunnel. πŸ™‚

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    • Bikramjit says:

      yeah I know the two years have been like that ..

      AMEN to that , yes fingers crossed 2015 might do the trick…

      THank you so much and I wish the same for you tooooooooooooooooooooooooo

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  17. ruchira says:

    haha…good to read this gyaan in the beginning of a new year πŸ˜‰
    Wishing you a great year!

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  18. sindhoooo says:

    Your words are like ‘tablets’ for our lives πŸ™‚ Some are sweet, some are bitter. But, they are essential!
    Life teaches in a strange way. When we think nothing is alright, it can make everything alright in the very next moment and vise versa is true too!
    ‘Karmanyevaadhikaaraste maa phaleshu kadaachana…’ is what life wants us to realise and do what we want to do (not giving it up thinking of the consequences)!

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  19. Hahahaha…Gyan never felt so Gud as well as so funny ever. Truth actually hurts but speak them like this or rather think about them like this then you can actually laugh it out. That’s the way it is…laugh it out and move on. Point is I wish I could but I am an emotional person but reading your Gyan sure did make me laugh. πŸ™‚

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  20. gc1963 says:

    I guess we all learn sooner or later what you’ve so succinctly put. At the same time, we forget what we learnt and repeat our mistakes all over again till they take on the proportions of blunders…..:-)

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  21. Arti says:

    So many pearls of wisdom there; also reminds me that I have still a lot of things to learn in life.

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  22. roohibhatnagar says:

    Being strong when it is the only choice you have.. that’s the best for me.. Although all are so true and yet strangely funny.. We live life full of ironies πŸ™‚

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