Here we are a day away from the new year, First of all let me wish everyone reading this a VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR..

The year 2012 has been Up and down and for some reason, I quite fancy that , else if not for these ups-downs life would be so boring.  The ups-downs sort of spice up life, When the down comes we somehow feel the world has come to an end or the earth below has shattered, we forget that time will change , smile will come back and it will be hunky dory once again.

All through the year I have met so many new people over my blog which has always been a highlight of my years, but that came with some heartache too , as some near-dear one’s no longer wish to know me. What hurts more is that there has been no reason for that , well at least thats what I feel, but unless I am told I would not know.

Relationships this has always been a heartache for me, for some reason it seems I get too close or friendly or emotionally attached to people TOO SOON, the rest of the world does not work that way and although I have been trying my best to change myself, I let myself down every time. Hopefully one of these days I will get or become as the world is 🙂  I had it in my bucket list last year too, It is still there in my bucket list for the new year.

There have been a few highlights in this year, some worth mentioning change in job,  Then the Queens medal which was right in the middle of the year 🙂 , Another wish or dream came true in the last few weeks of buying a house for homecoming.  Along with all the good parts came a few bad ones too, Which as i mentioned earlier made the year a bit spicy.

I had commented on a blog and that comment was shredded to bits, but it was such a good feeling to see a lot of people standing by me , That was not all the worst time was yet to come, but I would not like to mention it here now, its gone and does not mean anything any more.

I had promised a friend that I will participate in a category, that she has started for this  MONTH OF THE YEAR WRITING PROMPT 2012 – SEASON 3, but it seems I have failed her yet again, I just cant remember everything that happened in all this year, especially month wise.

So all in all I have had a wonderful year, I had just commented on a article that what will it be without the ups-downs , So  here’s hoping 2013 is equally good, with all its ups and downs to spice up the life. I don’t mind that at all as long as I have all the lovely people around.

I also want to say a Big Thank you to everyone who reads all the crap I write, All the ones who visit me and All you beautiful human beings who have made this blog a special place.  I had written a small poem for everyone during the year , which I am resharing here again as I still mean it with all my heart.  To all My friends and All who visit this blog.

Over years I have made some very good friends Even if we have not met , or chatted maybe talked once or twice over the years, But It does seem that I know them very well reading there articles. I have some favourites too, and for some I am favourite.. Let me please Take this opportunity to say THANK YOU to everyone who click on the link knowingly or unknowingly .. Thank you for all the comments, a lot of you know and I have been blamed with that too, That I am comment hungry.. OH YES no denying that I love the comments coming , But If I have forced you to come then please I am sorry.

Some of you have stood by me in my personal problem times and Good times .. Some of you hate me , some love me .. What I have found is its true things change.. Change in Inevitable , Some have just brushed past, Some who stood by me THEN have turned their back now… hence my writing that it has been a roller coaster ride.

Thank you for all the emails you have sent, The phone calls and Sms Messages.

So this post is dedicated to All the people who read what I write.  The ones who are younger than me let me say I love you all , All who are elder to me I respect you all.

Over the time I am sure I have offended a lot of you out there Let me take this opportunity to say Sorry to anyone and everyone who I let down for any reason..

I am sorry

Please let By gone’s be By-gone’s and let’s be friends again, life is too short to hold grudges of any kind.  I am sorry VERY SORRY from the bottom of my heart.

Chaman main ikhtilat rangon boo se baat banti hai 
hum hi hum hain to kya hum hain
tumhi tum ho to kya tum ho

I would like to Extend my hand of friendship to all those who are there..  God bless you all, have a good day , Thanks for reading this And heres WISHING YOU ALL ONCE AGAIN A VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR..  May all your dreams come true in the year 2013, May you dream more Dreams.

GOD BLESS and Love you all..

Let the Coming new year be better than all that have gone by , Vow to do something that you have always wanted to do but could not find time to do so ,Call up a forgotten friend, Drop an OLD GRUDGE and replace it with some pleasant memories , Vow not to make a promise that you don’t think you can keep, Stand up and walk Tall, . You’ll look Ten times younger. Don’t be afraid to say I love you Say it again .. They are the best words in the world.


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  1. jahidakhtar says:

    Thanks a lot.
    Wishing U and UR family a very Happy New Year!



  2. privytrifles says:

    Hey Bikram…that was such a touching post. I have tears in my eyes and it gave my goosebumps.

    Its a pleasure to have met you in this wonderful world of blogging and know you through your posts. Internet has made the world such a small place that without having met you I actually feel we have been friends for so long now 🙂

    Sending warm new year wishes your way with loads of laughter and love to be showered on you, always.

    Take care!


    • You always have such lovely words ot say about me , Thank you so much.
      and Yes It is a pleasure this side to have known you , you are a lovely person yourself and hopefully god willing some day we can meet tooo, internet has indeed made the wrold a very small place.

      Thank you for the wishes so so sooooooo warm ..


  3. Lifesong says:

    Nice knowing you Bikram 🙂 Wishing you a very Happy New year 2013 🙂


  4. Visha says:

    Whoa..thats a straight-from-heart post!!

    Wish you a very happy and peaceful New Year Bikram 🙂


  5. Wishing you a very happy and eventful new year – 2013 🙂

    Destination Infinity


  6. sangeeta says:

    A beautiful and well-written post, Bikram. People like you (rare) make the world a better place to live in. Here’s to a great 2013!


  7. techie2mom says:

    A post straight from the heart….Wishing you happy and successful 2013 and the following years…


  8. janu says:

    Wishing you a very awesome 2013. Keep writing, keep sharing, keep entertaining…keep caring.


  9. ladynimue says:

    This is one of the best post you could write mentioning me !
    thank you !!!!
    Much to learn from you and about you in coming years I know, but to all the times you have cheered me , made me smile and had a nice talk via comments , a biiig hugs !
    Stay blessed ! hope to “see” you this year in india and cook for you a good punjabi meal 😀


    • 🙂 Thank you so much, I know i had promised you I will write but I could not do so earlier .. and you are always very welcome always.. Thank you for asking me 🙂
      learn from me WOW not thats a very very big compliment, I hope i dont let you down ever..
      Thank for the lovely wishes and yes NExt time I am dropping in india you will Know for sure Promise 🙂 yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy


  10. A very happy springy new year to you too!


  11. You are a good person, Bikram! Nobody will continue to keep any grudge with you.

    Take care. Happy and peaceful and prosperous New year to you, Bikram!


  12. Zephyr says:

    We all love you Bikram. Be the same golden boy that you have always been and spread your cheer and joy in blog world. Your comments mean a lot to me, so keep commenting too. Wish you a very happy new year and trust it would be up and up this coming year for you 😀


  13. Jacqueline says:

    Wonderful post…..well said….dont think anyone could have said it better……hope you have a wonderful New Year…..Happy New Year to you tooo….keep in touch


  14. obsessivemom says:

    That’s a nice way to sum up the year Bikram. Thanks for being arround. You’re the cheerist presence on my blog. A very very happy new year to you.. Hope 2013 just has ups no downs.. Ups can be pretty exciting, you know.


  15. Swaram says:

    Happy 2013 Bik! And just be what u are, everybody is special and unique that way 🙂


  16. Bindu says:

    Good bye 2012. We have all learned a lot from our experiences and are more prepared to face/live another year. Let it be full of peace and happiness for you. What else can we ask for? 🙂


    • Oh yes we od learn a lot the problem is we forget what we learn very often he he he he 🙂 Thank you so much for the wishes
      what else can we ask for A win in the Saturday JAckpot WILL be good tooooooooooooooo 🙂 he he he


  17. Happy New Year to you and your family Bikram. Hope 2013 is a prosperous and wonderful year for you.


  18. anisnest says:

    a heart warming positive and best end of year post… Happy new year to you and your family.. Have fun


  19. irfan says:

    Happy New Year Bikram….. 🙂
    Looking forward to read you more n more here at your space….keep up the wonderful job.

    Stay blessed…..


  20. Dilip says:

    Dear Bikram this was a beautiful end of the year message – well composed and heartfelt! You are an inspirtaion to me my friend.
    Cheers 🙂


  21. chakoli says:

    Such a sweet post to welcome new year 🙂 loved it!! Its good to know you… 🙂


  22. Yuvika says:

    what a heartfelt post! a very happy new year to you and hope more of your dreams come true this year!


  23. Bhagyashree says:

    That is a lovely post Bikram And yes a bit of ups and lots of downs do spice up life.
    A very Happy New year to you too.


  24. The Fool says:

    Happy New Year, Bikram. Nice to read through the reflections of the year. By the way, a sudden curiosity. How did you get a British award? Are you in the British armed forces?

    Also I hope I have not conveyed a wrong meaning in my post. I don’t have so many visitors like you. I have only 8-9 people who visit me regularly. I am grateful to them and I would not even dream of hitting out at them directly or indirectly.


    • My dear don’t ever think that way about hitting on me or anything if I feel that way I will ask directly .. I don’t keep many grudges .. so dont worry about it. No you did not give any wrong impression. Chillaxx. .

      And I work for the police here and yes I live in UK and am a British on paper but Indian by heart.. the award was for the work done was somehow liked by my superiors. . Yeah I can fool a lot people he he he he he…

      Thank you so much.


  25. abichica says:

    wishing you and all your loved ones a very happy, jolly, super and prosperous new year to you! 😀


  26. manju says:

    A very Happy New Year to you and your family, Bikram!


  27. You know that’s what we all like about you, you are what you are and you have a pure heart. With many ups and downs, 2012 has passed and I hope 2013 turns brilliant for you.


  28. Saritha says:

    Bikram we are always there for you….

    Wishing you a very happy year and wonderful year ahead…..May all your wishes come true in the coming year…

    Missed few post you mentioned in this post,will read them soon…


  29. Latha says:

    Rain or shine, you are the best. I always told you and telling the same again. 🙂 It was wonderful to know a wonderful person like you through your blog. Btw, I think I came here from a comment of yours on someone’s blog. Hey, I am also like you..get emotionally attached very quickly and then get hurt eventually..:( learning my lessons well, still I do the same….Happy for all your ups in life and sorry for all the downs..somethings are out of our control, we can’t do anything about them..those incidents belong to that category. A very Happy New year to you too, Bikram ji. 🙂


  30. Sapna says:


    By reading your post, I could make out that you have a big heart and nothing can bother you so quickly except the few relationships which will surely get sorted out.

    You have summed up your year in a very nice way and my Wishes to you and to your family for the new year ahead.



  31. Wishing you the very best, Bikram. Always and all ways, forever and ever.


  32. Jas says:

    Have a wonderful 2013 Bikram… It is nice knowing you. 🙂


  33. ashreyamom says:

    happy happy happy new year.. may ubuy another house this year and gift me that.. 🙂


  34. Rahul says:

    May the New Year bring heaps of happiness and Joy, Bikram!


  35. deeps says:

    another year at hand, may you have bright days ahead or the strength and willingness to make them bright


  36. Writerzblock says:

    Happy happy new year Bikki. Congrats on the new job and new house. May 2013 be the beginning of many new adventures and good tidings 🙂


  37. joe says:

    Now I have to write what you wrote long back “Rulayega kya?”
    Happy New Year and I am sure this year will be much better than the years gone by.


  38. gardenerat60 says:

    A very Happy New Year!!


  39. sudhagee says:

    You’re right. “If not for these ups-downs life would be so boring”. And i’d like to add that we would not grow as people.

    Happy New Year, Bikram. Wish you good health, clarity of purpose, awareness of emotions, and goodwill for action ! May 2013 be a year of peace, sunshine and bring in all that you hope for ! 🙂


  40. Hugs Bikram! Wish you a happy new year. You are among the few bloggers who are very special to me. I never had an elder brother but feel like you are one to me. You are a gentleman, a true friend and a person of integrity. I wish that you always find more positives than negatives in life !


    • Thank you Rachna, SO VERY Much .. This is such a beautiful lovely Comment. I hope and pray to god that I never let you down or do anything to do that. I am so blessed to have so many lovely people around who think so highly of me .. now this is such a GREAT Start to the new year yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy 🙂 THank you once again


  41. That is one interesting year bikram :p And congrats for the new house 🙂

    And I wish you a happy happy new year 😀


  42. Firstly, wish you and your loved ones a very Happy New Year! 😀 That was such a soulful post. And I agree, without ups and downs, life wouldn’t be as beautiful. Guess, same goes with good and bad in relationships.

    Many congratulations for the dream job, receiving the Queens Jubilee Medal, and of course the new house. 🙂 Best wishes!


  43. Eyesspeak2 says:

    Hey Bikram..Wish you a very happy & a prosperous New year… Hope you have a great year ahead and every wish and dream of yours be fulfilled…:) 🙂


  44. chattywren says:

    Wish you a Very Happy New Year 2013…………congratulations on all that you’ve achieved, and here’s to newer horizons and dreams………..!


  45. happy new year biky!
    have a good one!


  46. Anita Menon says:

    Happy New year Bikramji. You can always be certain that there will be plenty of people to support you during your downs ( hope they don’ t come in 2013) and as many people to share your joys and happiness.


  47. Novroz says:

    happy new year Bik 🙂
    thank you for always checking on my turtles


  48. purbaray says:

    Couldn’t agree more! Life is too short to sulk and hold grudges against people you once loved.
    Wishing you a splendid 2013 🙂


  49. R's Mom says:

    oh Happy New Year many more lovely posts and fun filled years 🙂


  50. Sakshi says:

    Happy New Year 🙂
    Here is hoping that you have an AWESOME AWESOME year 🙂


  51. renu says:

    what a nice post!
    happy new Year!


  52. “Puchte hai woh ki Bikram kaun hai…” hmm… NICE 🙂
    So nice to read you Bikram, was smiling after reading this post – as everyone has already said – straight from heart, direct dil se 🙂
    After seeing sooo many comments I was thinking should I comment or not but then I thought as you are comment hungry(lol), let me comment on this one & wish you a very very Happy New Year 🙂
    Leaving with a big smile 🙂


    • Welcome here to this blog, Thank you so much for visiting. Do keep coming now 🙂 and yes yeas yess yesss do comment tooo 🙂 he he he he

      Wishing you and family a very happy new year .. my new year has already started with a bang , meeting so many new people here and making new friends …

      Happy new year to you and family and everyone around you …


  53. Wonderfully summed up the year. The ups and downs are a part and a parcel of every year. Guess we would never appreciate the ups, if it weren’t for the downs. I feel sometimes, they help us keep grounded, but ofcourse I wish for none for you in the coming year! You are one of the jolliest guy around in the blogsphere for me Bikram! May the best things happen to you always!
    A happy new year!!!!

    PS: Sorry for not reading the page for days.


    • oh ho dont worry about not reading , take your time as and when you get time .. No worries 🙂

      Thank you so much and yes ups and downs part of life.. you are right how can we appreciate the ups if not for the downs .. and yes they keep us grounded else if we fall from a big height we sure will injure ourself.. thank you for such lovely words about me 🙂 Yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

      Happy new year to you and family Jen… Have a great 2013


  54. Awwwww! Bikram, that’s kind of a sweeping overview.

    I wish I could write such DEEP things so SIMPLY. That’s an ART, for sure.

    Ups-Downs spicing up life…well, that gives me a perspective.

    Here’s wishing you a Very Chirpy Blogging Year ahead with all the ENVIABLE fan following 🙂
    (Who is not comment-hungry. Those onliners say they are not, JHOOT BOLTE HAIN!!!!!!!!!!!)

    Its also customary to add HAPPY, BRIGHT, PROSPEROUS, CREATIVE, FULFILLING in the wish tag which obviously goes without saying 🙂

    But I think I’ll take the liberty of quoting a dear poet friend of mine who wrote let this year be of “dwindled ego” and bring along a promise of ” a close knit chain of more humanity, less judgment of others”.

    So all that and much more to you and your family 🙂

    Keep blogging and keep sharing 🙂

    And oh yes! Keep gracing my posts with your esteemed presence. 🙂 🙂 🙂


    • 🙂 Thank you so muchhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh…
      ART .. he he he I am sure some out there will be swaying their heads in dismay he he he he …
      Thank you for the lovely wishes, and yes Jhooth bolte hain for sure 🙂 Hope you and family have a GREAT GREAT 2013 may all ur dreams and wishes come true in this new year ….


  55. Meera says:

    Happy New Year Bik!! One of the best things to happen to me last year was getting to know you by way of your blog. Keep the writing going and I wish you a phenomenal year ahead. May you have big successes, small sorrows and deep relationships.


    • Thank you so much, awwwwwwwww really WOWOW .. this year has started with a bang for me tooooooo, so many lovely comments I am dancing and now my ego has sky rocketed he he he he , Thank you thank you so much


  56. Jyoti Mishra says:

    A very happy new year to u too !!
    Isn’t this the best time for retrospection.. We all r doing it 🙂


  57. Bharti says:

    Wishing you lost more success and happy long lasting friendships this year Bikram. 🙂
    Thanks for your kind wishes!!
    Hoping to continue writing and clicking and remain in touch in this new year ….


  58. Lovely post! I wish I could do something like this one too.
    Happy New Year!
    Cheers to the new beginnings 🙂


  59. ramyam139 says:

    wow such a nice post about all that happened with you 🙂 feels like I know you from a year now 🙂 Bikram. feels good our friendship is a year old now 😀 and all that because you have been so kind and encouraging 😀

    Also Congratulations on all your success, and if any failure then forget it dont call them failures they are lessons 😀 learn them and move on 😀

    So no matter what stay the way you are 😀 do not change:D and let this New year 2013 bring lots of confidence happiness and success to you

    Happy Happy new year Bikram 😀


    • Hello Hello , How you doing. Oh yes a year old and here’s to many many years to follow , and thank you for considering me a friend.
      Good to see you here , although COME OVER MORE he he he he he 🙂
      you are right they are lessons for sure , teaching us ways of the world and life tooo sometimes ..

      Happy New year to you and family Ramya , hope and wish you have a great 2013…………. 🙂 🙂


  60. R-A-J says:

    Happy New Year my friend!!!!

    I have 5000 today, but I’ll not use more than 3000……. kyuki, Do Sau Tera Hai!!!




  61. Ria says:

    Hope this year brings the best for you….what a lovely way to sum up the year! 🙂


  62. Lovely post. Happy new year!!


  63. Jaishvats says:

    A heartfelt and touching write-up Bikram . Now forget about all the downs , remember all the ups and march into 2013 with that characteristic Bikram grin I have seen in your photos ! There ! That’s perfect ! 🙂 happy new year to u too buddy 🙂


  64. pixie says:

    Happy 2013 Biks!! 🙂
    Wishing you all the happiness and love and peace for the coming year 🙂


  65. prasoon1102 says:

    Happy new year sir 🙂

    Well, I’m a late entrant to your blog. Nevertheless, I have enjoyed reading your posts thoroughly. One can easily see that these posts are coming straight from your heart. Looking forward to more from you in this new year. Have a great year 🙂

    And you a Policeman 😮


  66. Shilpa Garg says:

    A very happy new year to you, Bikram. May the new year brings loads of love, happiness, success and joy in everything you do! Cheers 🙂


  67. Jazz says:

    Hey happy happy new year wishes to you and your family Bikram, may you have loads of good memories and happiness ahead. 🙂


  68. debajyoti says:

    have a great 2013 Bikram!! would love to read only ups and ups on your blog this year 🙂


  69. that was such a heartfelt post, and a lovely summation of your year! wish you a wonderful new year 2013 and may all your wishes be is always a pleasure to read you!


  70. Bk chowla says:

    Bikram ,a very happy new year to you and your family.
    For me 2012 had amongst other events,my meeting you.It was a pleasure


  71. Ashwini C N says:

    Happy New year :-), It’s really nice to have known you through your wonderful Blog. And as you say, with the interactions that happen in the post and the comments, we do get to know a lot about people, our blogging friends 🙂


  72. Punam J R says:

    Wishing you more UPS this year and after, BIkram.. and I hope people hold no grudges against you.


  73. thank you Bikram veer ji ..

    apologies for the late comment ..

    wish you and all at a home a very happy and prosperous new year !


  74. thank you Bikram veer ji ..

    apologies for the late comment ..

    wish you and all in the family a very happy and prosperous new year !!!


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