Paaji – bhenji .. will you Marry me … (another long post)

Posted: May 16, 2011 in Abuse, Age, Angry, Cheaters, indians, Mankind, never, People, Sad story, Shameless, Soch
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DISCLAIMER:-This Article has some very nasty truths .. so please read it at your own risk.. Truth is always hard to digest. These are my thoughts or what i have seen and heard ..

After my last post on what happened with a girl I know, I have some further Shocking incidents to discuss here. 

When I was studying in school as usual we had our female class mates with us, yes we had our crushes and emotions for a few of them in the school which is common , One of the girls in the class called me bhaiya or Veerji.. and that was it since that day onwards we have talked to each other as brother and sister, I am sure there are hundreds and thousands who have had that experience and do believe in the relation like that.

BUT nowadays a new situation is cropping up, which is quiet mind-blowing and shocking too, the hunger to come abroad, reach foreign shores is so bad in our country that people will do anything to get out, I know most of the people will say it’s not like that anymore. No one wants to come abroad the young generation is not looking to go abroad but to be blunt It is a myth. What all the so-called Educated, the future of the nation would do to come abroad. 

Here area few scenarios..

1. A girl/boy  takes an exam to get admission in a University or college in UK, they have been taking tuitions to pass this exam to get a good band, They pass it and then apply for a visa to come to this county.. Visa is again a lottery .. Lets suppose that “A” gets the visa (I don’t know what type of visa etc) , but lets assume they get 3 or 4 years visa.  Money has been spent on tuition, staying in a city for all that time, visa fees, visiting Delhi or whenever the consulate is .. all this adds up to a good amount, BUT mission accomplished got the Visa…

The scheme starts now.. “A” ‘s parents are now on a look out for a partner for their child, OH YES.. the reason being that since “A” can come abroad he can apply for a visa for a dependant which can be a husband-wife-partner .. So the BOLI the Auction starts .. the highest bidder who can pay .. for all that money spent, plus the college fees to be given , the travel arrangements etc etc and a PROFIT on top of it is required, well you can well imagine how much money exchanges hands.. it goes in lakhs..

This is the new trend which has come up you want to come abroad find a person who has got a visa then apply as a partner and voila you  can come to the foreign shores, we the indian’s are exploiting this rule to the fullest, sometimes to prove they are partners a sham marriage takes place…  Sham marriages is another big fiddle these days.  In our society it’s still ok for a boy but the girls too don’t mind these days, they get the money , and then come here and have to live like partners here to …

This is becoming quiet common in south india and Punjab since most of the students who are coming are from these areas…

2. This is Much more shocking a boy marries a girl from abroad or vice versa , come to the country stay for as long with their mutual partner , then I think its 2 years or maybe 5 years they apply for the citizenship , which they usually get because all these years they have been golden boys/girls in the family, suddenly when that Red passport comes in hand they change to their true colours .. Bang comes the papers to file for a divorce out of the blue.. next thing is they have a girl friend or boy friend back in india who now comes over as the new partner  🙂

Hold on One more scheme is there

3. If you have a relative settled abroad doesn’t matter who it is , if they have a permanent residency then ask them to divorce their partners , you have a sham marriage with them .. you can come abroad .. then off course you change partners again  once all settles down .. a LOT of money exchanges hands this way ..

Situation is so bad that brothers and sisters are getting to this SHAM marriage …  when I started writing this article this is what i wanted to write on but it’s too disgusting .. Reading the above few scenarios I am sure you all are intelligent enough to know what i would have said .. YES  there have been such cases, tooo. CAN YOU BELIEVE IT.. what  people can do to come abroad , that’s why I laugh sometimes when people say oh the young generation is not interested … One needs to see the Ques at Delhi or other consulates..  We as indians have this habit of not seeing the reality and hushing up matters this is one of them..

Someone said to me its only a small number .. YES ITS A SMALL NUMBER BECAUSE THERE IS ONLY SO MANY APPLICATIONS THAT CAN BE PROCESSED IN A DAY AT THE CONSULATES…  if it is open 24 hours the line will be longer …

I had an Indian passport with permanent residency, here when you apply for a british passport legally you are supposed to surrender your old passport ..  I was offered 10 lakh plus rupees if I could sell my passport to a friend in Chennai, He was so desperate to come over. I mean how will the name BIKRAMJIT go with a south Indian face,  no disrespect to him, but his answer was that its his problem, Me being an idiot surrendered my passport the day i got my british one, I should have kept it easy money that was…

The reason I brought this up I have a family friend here who are happily married and recently got their permanent stay here, Look how news travels and how the minds of people work, this was on 28th or 29th of April ..  and last week someone approached me from India a friend of a friend of a friend … 🙂 … that I should go and talk to this couple if they are interested in making some money and this was the idea.. 25 Lakh each 🙂 

Me being me called this friend who had given my number and blasted him off , now I have lost a friend too.. I have not told the couple here lest they stop talking to me too,  the best part is the person who phoned me is cousin of the girl.

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  1. These people will never be satisfied anywhere. One of my associates daughter was getting married to a boy in US, and I asked him if he would also settle down in US…. He replied – ‘Search for happiness in your mind, not in the place where you live’ 🙂

    I think its better to lose hundred such friends, to gain the respect/ friendship of one good person.

    Destination Infinity

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    • Bikram says:

      DI, That is the problem when is it THAT IT IS ENOUGH, the greed never comes down its alway more more more … hence ways and tricks to someone get there .. It is true what your friend says but in reality it becomes a bit hard becaue of our greed ..

      I do beleive in what you say that its better ot lose a friend and gain respect of others and I am a person who will not look back and try to makeup once i turn my back.. Its done .. I do hold on to everything for as long a i can ..

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  2. Shas says:

    Sad 😦
    Didn’t know that people were ready to even exchange or buy identities to get to phoren-land.

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    • Bikram says:

      Well well you dont know yet what people do , wait till i put some of more stories that go around and tell you how desperate people and the young generation in india is to get out, sometimes the beleif that i hear from a lot of bloggers that things have changed .. seems like a story …

      It is Sad indeed

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  3. And these same people swear by Indian values and culture. If they think everything here is better, then why do they want to cheat, buy, sell, lie to go there? Such friends are not worth worrying over Bikram.

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    • Bikram says:

      IHM yes they do , Oh my god you got to see how they behave and what all they do, I wrote a post on what i saw with reference to the so caleld people who visit temples and Gurudwaras each day , ages ago.. When i had initially come here I had different view of people but slowly and steadily i have come ot know a lot of things and my work too helps me in knowing what actually the so called religious people do, what all NASTY things they do and what all they do to stay in this country.

      Thank you IHM for the cound advice I know its no use worrying over but As i have mentioned I am stupid and GOD knows when will i learn .. if only

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  4. Wildflower says:

    Sad but true.
    I know many people laugh over such stories, but i am sure they haven’t resided in a western country and therefore truly don’t understand the extent to which this is blatantly practiced.

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    • Bikram says:

      They can laugh as much as they want , but come the day when they have a oppurtunity to come ot pastures green, they will be the first one to try doing anything to come here. It makes me smile when people say of they are not interested to come aborad well Good for them and good luck to them, I am not ashamed of coming it was the right thing for me to do , and I came through proper channels, no wonder i got my permanent residency withing 5 weeks of applying ..

      the problem is people are TWO faced they will say anything to please anyone , the same people who vouch for how they love india and will never go out the first chance if given will do anything to get out too.. I myself think Lucky are those people who get ot stay in their motherland and earn a decent living…

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  5. ladynimue says:

    fitte muh …
    beda gark ho logon ka ..
    kya kya kartehain …

    Seriously .. i wnt mind any perosn staying together put of love .. but for money ! damn sad !

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    • Bikram says:

      I LIKE THIS .. typical punjabi words .. made me smile when i read them

      haanji Fitte muh uhna de jihna ne koi kasar nahin chadhi apni te apne naal de bandiyaan di beizzati karwaun ch … People do nasty things , schocking .. I had written the situation of indians here in UK after the recession it is pathetic and they are doing worse things here now …

      Money is a big thing …

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  6. A says:

    Unbelievable. But if you are saying it must be truth. I guess we need to be careful.

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    • Bikram says:

      Amrit Paaji.. you are very naive and a good person so you dont know what all goes on… One needs to be VERY CAREFUL… I got a few more stories but these were the least schocking that i put

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  7. Pepper says:

    What? Such things happen? Truly shocking. And very sad.

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    • Bikram says:

      🙂 Oh yes everywhere, and its quiet a lot in people wanting ot come to UK and USA 🙂 a few more years out there in USA and you will soon find out what all people do , to get that Green card over there … 🙂

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  8. Bharti says:

    Really? Shocking….
    Have heard many similar stories but they were all like 20-30 yrs old stories… Didnt think people still have no morals once it comes to moving abroad. What a shame! No wonder countries are making their rules more n more strict. All for going to another country.
    Have seen a documentary … In which an indian guy was had moved to UK doing whatever it took n spending huuuuge… N now he was living on road with nothing to eat as whatever lil bit he wud earn he had to send back home. And family back in village was still complaining n comparing what the neighbours’ sons were sending.
    It was terrible to see the state…. Alll for the so called fantasy land.

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    • Bikram says:

      what happened then is nothing compared to what is going now, people have simply lost there moral values, 20-30 years time they had some Values .. not anymore. Yes the countries have to make there rules harder and why shud they not, look at what we do to come here and there are Genuine people who are refused visa’s jsut because the whole society is seen in the same eye.. recently a big Fake Marriage Scam was busted here and it was being run by a few indians and that too educated ones, from good families.. and respectful families…

      Not just one indian , the roads in southhall are full of such people, who are ready to work the whole days for a mere 10-20 pounds and that too anything , our girls are worst hit its schocking i cant even write here …

      and as you say family back home still moaning why they not sending money … Very sad situation …

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  9. Smitha says:

    So shocking! Do people like exist! How desperate can people get? And why not go abroad the proper way, if at all they have to? Why would people want to o such things! *Shudders*

    You are better off without friends like these!

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    • Bikram says:

      Smitha dont tell me you did not know 🙂 you should watch more of BBC he he he he this was on a program in a documentary a few months back.. the problem with proper way is it takes long and you may or may not get t ostay later on.. so such situations arise .. and this thing of marrying and divorcing then calling there GF-BF over is becoming quiet common now ..

      Why they want to well they think we have this Money plant in our backyard from where we pluck money 🙂 and they want to come and pluck a few for themselves tooooo

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      • Smitha says:

        I really did not. Do you remember the name of the documentary?

        I actually thought that people must have lost the craze to move abroad, since it is more common now.

        And all our circle here are the IT crowd and some doctors, we have not come across many students..

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  10. Is it really happening, I am shocked and in total disbelief. People are crazy..

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  11. raji says:

    I had heard of the above few marraige incidents ,but the shocking news was the passport selling incident!Hiegts I say!!

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  12. irfanuddin says:

    Disgusting… 😦
    and then we keep on saying proudly that we are much more civilized and SANSAAKRI than most of the other countries……..

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    • Bikram says:

      Irfaan Sir, what people do behind closed doors is a mystery, what we see is there OTHER side out in the open , the schemes etc they come out with …

      Imagine one of your cousins asking you to divorce your wife , marry them then apply for visa.. and once they have it .. you can again divorce and go back to your wife .. 🙂 such things do happen , and fake marriage scam is out there ….

      SANSKAAR who gives a damn to them these days …

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  13. Chitra says:

    What all ideas they come up with. really shocking. I think these people are mad, going in search of greener pastures byy their foolish ideas without any adherence to VALUES.

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  14. kavita says:

    Shocking and sad 😦

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  15. NRIGirl says:

    Shame… shame…

    You know in the US where you live affects which public school your child attends. There are some friends who have signed up their kids with their friend’s address to benefit from the better off school district!!

    I have also heard of the divorce cases in the US among older couple for financial reasons such as tax benefits.

    I know of a older couple who don’t have children but have included her sisters children as their own in their green card application!!

    People buying books only to scan and return it after few days…

    Even well earning engineers copying DVDs and CDs and living like it is not a big deal…

    Worst is they speak of rubies and diamonds all the time and show off in all glitter at get togethers…

    Shame… shame… to such!!

    Whatever happend to their so called culture in these repulsive lot?

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    • Bikram says:

      Oh its common here too, I have had a few friends ask me if they can use my address cause i live next to one of the best schools here.. I am still deciding should i or should i not .. dont know .. this might help the kids .. well i have not thought about it so much ..

      YEs even old couples are at it , and especially Kids who are using there parents , bringing them from india and then using there health to get things done for themselves .. I rememebr when my mum and dad came to uk to visit me , the advices i got of how I could take advantage of my dad’s medical problem, How i could get grants to extend my house this and that …

      Thankfully God has been great I did not do any of such things my parents visited me every other year and stayed for 3 -4 months in summers and then went back, they never liked staying here and would have hated if i had forced them to stay with me …

      Culture – Values etc are things of past.. they go for a six the moment that front door of the house gets closed.. what they do behind those doors is shocking …

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  16. Purbaray says:

    Have relationships become disposable in today’s age?

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  17. Phoenixritu says:

    Marriage is a commercial racket, it has been so from ages. I mean, read history, Borgias did it, royalty of all countries prove it as a fact. Read your British history and you will know. Human nature is cruel, bad and disgusting. Brothers and sisters, sheesh, that is a new low

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  18. stranger says:

    Gosh…it is revolting what people will do for a foreign visa…

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  19. pujathakur says:

    Am too stumped to write anything…

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  20. Rang says:

    Hmm do not know what to say 🙂

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  21. Enigma says:

    Very sad. I didn’t knew such cases existed. It’s a shame to the individuals as well as to the bond called marriage. 😦

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    • Bikram says:

      🙂 you are a good person, a naive person.. but the world is very bad and full of bad people …

      shame is a small word to them its ways to the means.. they dont see it as values or anything

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  22. Rachna says:

    This is really shocking. Why are some people willing to go to such depths. And, imagine that the parents instead of teaching them the right values actually help in such nefarious activities. Well, you did the right thing. I would do the same in your place. Dosti ka matlab faayda uthana kab se ho gaya?

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  23. Reema says:

    what is with this obsession to go to UK/US in some regions of our country by hook or crook?? I fail to get that!

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  24. Deeps says:

    Anything for vsa, anything for money seems to be the mantra for those people Shocking to say the least!

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  25. Chhavi says:

    People think that going abroad is the easiest way to earn quick cash. Hence the obsession with going abroad. Relationships are beginning to lose importance. It’s a pity people think like that.

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    • Bikram says:

      thats what they think Chhavi, but we have to work here too and work more harder then in india. yet they are ready to come and work here but not in there own country, I was told I dont know the ground realities why they wont work in india… thats true but then for that loosing ur values, self esteem and what not is it worth it all..

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  26. shilpa says:

    You know, my friend’s mother was all crazy about getting her daughter(my friend) married to a NRI and to have my friend settled in there. Her mother is a ragi, she along with her group got sponsorship from a Gurudwara from Singapore to perform there. She went there, afterwards she also got sponsorships from Greece, Canada. In all these places, she saw several cases where Girls from India who were married to NRI boys, were living in Gurudwaras as they were being tortured by their husbands and in-laws so they left the house buy had no place to go hence living in Gurudwaras, These girls can’ even go back to India as their passports were snatched by in-laws the moment they stepped in those countries. Well, now Aunty ji don’t want to send her daughter to some NRI household.
    Then their are some people who have got citizenship of the country they have moved to, leaving their old parents back home. After these kids have their own kids,they call their parents to their place, of course take their passports and treat them as their servants etc.
    People in India, specially in Punjab are so crazy about settling abroad they do anything for it. Most of them go there illegally.
    Newpapers, TV news etc alert people everyday about such things but nobody cares. I don’t know when will these people learn?

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    • shilpa says:

      sorry typos *but (not buy)
      *can’t (not can’)
      *there (not their)
      .
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      shilpa

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    • Bikram says:

      dont let me open my mouth on the RAAGI’s or granthi’s , they are the worst lot of them all, and in some case the ROOT CAUSE .. they are the ones who have come out with some ideas and what they do whe nthey reach here you will be schokced.

      Imagine this is me going ot india, tthree Granthis, proper AmritDhaar’s , sitting with me .. as the flight took off .. they got up and changed to kurta pyjamas.. and come the drinks I asked for myself , I was with friends so i got up and moved to where they were sittng .. a few hours later i got up to go back to my seat .. these guys were Drinking , I wanted to SLAP them .. so i asked sarcastically “KOI seva kariye , Babiyo”

      he replies “Bas ji hun taan dhan dhan hoi hai “..

      Can you beleive this 🙂

      I have a few more , maybe i will blog it , when i had to catch one of them .. Will let u know when i blog it …

      Not jsut punjab, even from south there is a flood of people now ..

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  27. Shilpa Garg says:

    Truly shocking and disgusting too!! :O

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  28. Smita says:

    This isn’t really shocking!! We are a nation of jugadu people who will do whatever it takes to achieve what we want. Sadly the path we never take is that of truth!

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  29. dr.antony says:

    Hi Bikram
    i have heard such stories and know some of them personally.People do anything these days to get out of their own countries.Who is to blame?

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    • Bikram says:

      Thank you Sir.. these stories are quiet common now these days .. Yes we have become so selfish and greedy that as you say we will do anything to get anything .. I dont know who is to blame .. dont know sir..

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  30. Swaram says:

    Such losers they are!

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  31. Sandhya says:

    Every story you have narrated here, is scary. I just don’t understand why our people are so desperate to get out of the country, when educated people get very good salary here itself. Many people go there in a straight forward way. It is always risky and they have to live in fear, forever.

    Give importance only to good true friends. You need not worry about the friend who had given your no. for this type of work, Bikram.

    Feel sad for the youngsters who are going after money that too in a shortcut way instead of living here peacefully and happily.

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    • Bikram says:

      Yes they are so scary, makes me thing sometimes that i am so stupid , why dont i think of such schemes quick buck… lots come in straight way but when they see the ways and things then i guess greed comes in .. Yes they have ot live in fear bu t the lure of quick money and 80rs for one pound is a big carrot they all want ot eat 🙂

      haanji got your point will keep in mind always 🙂 thank you so much

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  32. harman says:

    ..very true Bikram…every word!…I have loads of stories to tell …they marry ..get divorce..remarry and get money ….for another deal!..its sad!!
    who says Indians are not interested in coming abroad..OYE..stop day dreaming….look at the embassy….A sikh uncle fought so much for American visa….as he had returned Green card for his loyalty towards country….But ,,he came to know the old age problems in India and regretted …coming back to the country…he didn’t get American visa again for which he was desperate…
    ….many people tell me to send sponsorship so they can visit US once in life time!
    …and yes..contract marriages are very popular!
    pound and dollar makes sense here:)

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    • Bikram says:

      I know I know for money and for visa anything goes… There are some who argued with me faught with me saying india has changed and no one wants to come abraod I jsut smile at them .. wish they cann see the que at the embassies and at heathrow airport Each day 🙂

      You said the right thing a few of my friends also went back to APNA PUNJAB.. but they are all back here now regreatting there decisions …

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  33. Tanishka says:

    Disgusting…. I can not think of any other word… How can they even think to do such things… Marriage and relations have just become mere words for people these days….

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  34. Rekha says:

    they don’t realise that its not all rosy abroad….and in most cases the so called traditional parents chuck their codes out of the window for a visa….but we are like this only…and the media here screams hoarse because U.K is tightening its Visa process….

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    • Bikram says:

      YEs they dont yet they iwll do anything to come here and then its like OHHH and then its too late to go abck as they have spent so much to come here so have to earn something and then they get stuck in the daily life .. They are tightening which is goood .. but our people di a jugaad and find a way

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  35. i4deeps says:

    I seriously think you need to stop logging…
    And maybe think about start writing a novel or something :P, you got the arms and ammunition for the shot 🙂

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    • Bikram says:

      Ok sire I will stop blogging 🙂 i dont write this bad he he eh eheh 🙂

      thank you thank you .. ME writing a novel is like Sun rise from the WEST 🙂

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  36. V Rakesh says:

    Missed many an interesting post! Good to be back! Hope alls well with you!

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  37. bhagyareema says:

    Speechless!! 😦

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  38. chandni says:

    this post made me very sad. To what extent can people go? where does it stop? will it ever stop???

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  39. R's Mom says:

    I dont believe this…honestly I dont..whats with being so crazy about going abroad! I have been to London only once and if you dont count Dubai thats the only phoren land I have been too…it just feel like Mumbai, just a lot emptier, costlier, colder and not approachabler (If there is such a word!) Why are we Indians so crazy about going abroad…I dont mind settling down anywhere honestly, but I would certainly not lie and cheat to get away from India!

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    • Bikram says:

      WEll it is a need i guess, i cant say anything since i am myself here in uk everyone wants to make a better living i guess .. i dont mind that .. but i do mind the ways they use … which is what is disgusting … london has changed a lot , its become scary now 🙂 so when you coming next and when you do make sure you contact me .. 🙂

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  40. bedazzled says:

    OMG.. Seriously, can people go to this extent for getting a “foreign” citizenship.appalling.

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  41. .

    Pathetic !

    Indeed very shocking. Had tears while reading all this . It’s true that the craze to go abroad is leading them to cross all boundaries. No respect left for their culture and traditions. They don’t give a damn now a days.

    Thanks for this post. An eye opener !

    Regards,

    .

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  42. Ria says:

    This is truly ridiculous…what a shame!!

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  43. Kame says:

    This is indeed a very long post ,my eyes are still rotating @.@

    It was shocking. the third condition was the most disgusting one

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  44. Ravi says:

    The times are going from bad to worse i think when I hear such news. This should be expected of a civilization which has forgotten their inner soul’s calling and are pursuing wrong things.
    However when I step back and re think I say – who am o to judge – each thinks given their culture I guess. What else to do ….

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    • Bikram says:

      Ravi yes times have changed for bad . well it is true we have forgotten our values .

      I dont kno what to say someone has to change all this dont know who lets hope for the best bro.

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  45. Punam J R says:

    Extremely shocking, Bikram!! Esp. the bro-sis thing u said, and the passport incident – no wonder you cn’t be a millionaire – I agree, seedhe raaste lambe ho jaate hain na –
    I myself had been planning to move to UK, but the seedhe way – was trying to come there for higher studies, but life took a different turn and i took up a job here instead. 🙂 I’ve got very close cousins in the US, but haven’t got the ‘oh-so-imp’ 16th year of education.

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    • Bikram says:

      Indeed it is shocking .. yeah thats why the title Paaji (brother) Bhenji (sister) .. yepp i will never be a millionaire until i change my self and my thoughts …

      all the best with your idea and wish to come abroad, and good on taking a job, well done you never know earn enough to finance yourself then you wont need any cousins or anyone to help you out .. 🙂

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  46. purva says:

    Bikram, i am a new reader in your list!
    i liked the few posts that i could read in he limited time.

    On this issue, i have worked in Punjab and have seen people selling their houses, asking their kids to leave school, leaving good salaries … just to go and settle abroad, i mean i have seen people ready to go and become a mason in UK than earn a handsom salary sitting in a fairly good office.

    Its a sorry state of affairs, but demand is huge- thats why you have travel agents, training institutes mushrooming everywhere in Punjab. What makes me feel further sad is that the rate at which this phenomenon is growing is unimaginable. Punjab, Gujarat, AP, Kerela…. are the states where people grow up thinking they will go to Canada, US, Australia, UK, UAE…

    As i always joke poor maslow unnecessarily created the levels– reaching self acutalization is expecting too much these days.

    At the end of the day its a personal choice!..People have the right to choose where they want to settle but somehow all logics fail to work for me 😀

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  47. Bikram says:

    Hi Purva.. Welcome to this blog and thank you for visiting …
    thank you for liking what i write …
    so where in punjjab do you work, I am from punjab , candigarh – patiala and all yeah situation is veyr veyr bad these days so many people are wanting to come ..

    thats why it makes me laugh when people say no one from india wants to come , people are changing etc etc …

    yeah it is a personal choice I have no qualms over anyone wanting ot come, I came myself but come through proper channels , why do such wrong things , everyone has the right to go and settle anywhere as you say.. but not at the risk of values and other things that go with it ..

    Thank you .

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  48. Really? such things happen in real? I thought they are only shown in movies.. I know people are really really desperate to leave India, but they can get down to such extents.. really shocking.. god save such people..what is wrong with people these days?!! :O

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    • Bikram says:

      Yes they do and quiet often. Yes they are veey desperate what I wonder is why are they desperate when people keep saying india is booming etc and yoingstets are not wanting to go still such things are on the rise.

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  49. Ajay says:

    Paaji you should have taken that money. Get rid of your USELESS values and ways .. they dont work in the real life and neither do they exist.

    Morality is thing of the past. Who the hell gives a damn tell me … Imagine what all could have been done with all that money.

    And One day i will really like to meet the ones who say no one wants to come abroad, they really need to open there eyes open, they sit in there own little world imagening if things are ok in there circle then the rest is also ok.

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  50. scorpria says:

    What!? Really!? Such things happen? How dumb, and yuck! The extends to which ppl go to become “Foreign”!!! 😮

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  51. Homecooked says:

    Yeah…thats the sad truth. I’ve heard of such cases 😦 Dont know about cases in the US but have heard about UK and Canada being exploited.

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    • Bikram says:

      YEah it happens everywhere, we are good at exploiting .. earlier it was not known , now adays its coming out in the Open .. hence we all know ..

      thank you.

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  52. UmaS says:

    OMG !!! Its shocking at what ppl do for money and for going abroad….its a shame….

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  53. Jzt4me says:

    I have heard still worser stories…So maybe this didnt come in as a shock to me…

    I think this happens mostly in European countries and even USA…Lol, dare somebody try this to a Middle Eastern Country…Maybe its the Visa qualifications are reasons for such shams…hmm…

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    • Bikram says:

      hmmm yeah it happens here more as these are the countries people are dieing to come to ..

      Thats what makes me more mad they dont dare do this in Middle eastern countries.. so the places which help them giving a life are the places who they try to defraud … against

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  54. Jzt4me says:

    I still remember, how one of my neighbour, who got married to a UK citizen (Indian origin) got his UK visa…The marriage was a very orthodox arranged marriage..decided by parents and got married in the very traditional style…

    But then, later to fly across, the papers were put across as if, this Bhaiyya and the girl was in love for years and thats how they got married…Lol..I still remember him learning all details of his newly wed wife…It so happened that this girl had come to India only once when she was some 12 yr old…and the story was fabricated as if they met then and thru phone and letters fell in love…haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa….

    Anyways..now its been years…he is still in UK..probably holding British passport by now..father of 2 kids too…and owner of a fabricated love story…

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  55. Anuradha says:

    omg heights 🙄 where do you get to hear such stories ,,chii people dont even feel ashamed ? :-S instead of wasting dollars there and selling their morales they can better live a normal life in INDIA :-S

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  56. GOD! thats awful!!!!

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