DRUNK…

Posted: March 22, 2011 in Alcohol, being drunk, Daroooo
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Have you ever seen what happens when you have your drinks. It always seems you are the one who is not drunk whereas everyone else is drunk. And the question is how much have you drunk.. I always know how much I have drunk cause I can see all that I have thrown out on the floor 🙂 yeah thats how much I have drunk.

When that happens have you ever noticed how No one blames the alcohol for this. Its always

 ‘Oh, I ate something funny.’

 Yeah the packet of crisp you had between the 5th double and the 6th double. Thats what CHURNED the stomach.

And then you have to come back home it seems the whole world has conspired against u. So much noise.

The more discreet you try to be the more noise it generates. You reach home, open the door and it goes

Ccccccccccchhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhuuuuuuuuuuuunnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn.

It never makes the noise, but today it will cause your dad or mom need to wake up to see you in that state. It’s all a SAAZISH.

Everything is planning against you.

The first step you take on the stair feels like you have stepped on one of those bubble things that may pop at any instant. The lighter you put your foot, the heavier it falls… THUD THUD THUD… You will hear your parents murmur something but you are too oblivious to it. You just need to get to your room and slump on the bed.

You climb up the stairs only to find you have just opened the door to your parents door… Oops! Or is it the neighbours house ha hahah that would be nice. I don’t drink. No, really. I know after the above few lines, you may be laughing reading this. But i don’t really… Ok, I don’t drink THAT MUCH he he he he.

I usually drink on occasions now. Earlier I used to drink with friends and all used to get together. I remember one incident I can’t ever forget which made me always think the next time I drank. My parents like most parents did not know I drank. We try so hard to not let them know. But one day it happened. I did not realise I was drunk which is usually what happens when you are. Everyone else is drunk other than you. I reached home, my parents knew i was drunk they did not say a word. NOT A WORD. That was what hit me the most.

I sobered up, I could not see them in the eyes. From then on i promised myself this would not happen again and luckily its been a decade almost 10 years I have not made a fool of myself and drink responsibly.

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Comments
  1. Chakoli says:

    Hmmmm…. it started with a funny note but ended with a heavy punch …

    Its good u stopped :)..
    I m not against drinking but if u r not able to ctrl it , better to stop it …

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    • Bikram says:

      I know I try to be funny , not that i suceed that much but i do try …

      Yeah i have stopped drinking TOOO much .. though now and then or on accasions i do .. Yes so true if one cant handle then one shud not drink…

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  2. Smita says:

    I have never hated ppl who drink but somehow or the other I don’t like ppl drinking!!! It makes ppl do things they otherwise won’t do!

    Good that u have stuck to ur decision of not drinking 🙂

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    • Bikram says:

      Hmm yeah so true one shud handle it .. I also dont hate drunkards but because of the nature of my job i can afford to have lot of alcohol in my body so have to be careful ..

      but sometimes its funny watching drunk people 🙂 Nooooooo I have not stopped drinking I do enjoy but now i know when to stop and go to sleep 🙂

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  3. Chhavi says:

    He he he… you were that drunk ??? 😉 Actually I don’t mind people drinking as long as they can take control of themselves…… Good that you stuck to your promise

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    • Bikram says:

      Yeah I was that drunk.. 🙂 I was in college then.. Yeah I have stuck to it cause I know if i had done it again My dad would have slapped me ..

      So now its all in moderation and as such you might have read I am Running and trying for that 6 pack and alcohol doesnot help in achieving it he he heehe 🙂

      thank you so much.

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  4. IRFANUDDIN says:

    Pine Pilane Ki Kya Baat Katre Ho,
    Kabhi Ham Bhi Piya Karte Thhe,
    Jitna Tum Jaam Liye Baithe Ho,
    Utna Ham Paimane Mein Chor Diyaa Karte The…… 🙂

    its good you have become a nice boy now…… but sir jee there is nothing bad in having few sip occasionally…….

    Guru rumma,
    Guru Whisky,
    Guru Vodka,
    Ginneshwara,
    Gurur Scotcha,
    Param Brandi,
    Tasmaishri Beer,
    Alchoholal Namah…..

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    • Bikram says:

      Sir ji .. Kya baat kahi aapne.. 🙂 I know nothing bad to have a few occasionally .. Dont deny that and always do it ..
      I think Nowadays I drink to Enjoy rather then get drunk .. thats the difference 🙂

      and thats a good Mantra .. 🙂

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  5. very nice blog..i enjoyed it a lot..will be back to your space again for sure

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  6. A_W says:

    BIkram,

    I am proud of you. :))) You did the right thing.

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  7. Ria says:

    Do proud of u buddy!!

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  8. Alcohol is bad for health. Period. Just get one person (who drinks) to accept this simple fact that we learnt in primary science classes – It is impossible!

    Destination Infinity

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  9. Ria says:

    i m sorry i wanted to say “So” and not “Do”

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  10. Ananya says:

    Hahah.

    It was sweet. 🙂

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  11. Deboshree says:

    Kudos Bikram. I loved this post with all my heart. How I wish others would follow your example and be responsible drinkers if at all they have to drink.

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    • Bikram says:

      🙂 thank you. Glad you liked this. Yes I hope so too all do that .. no harm in drinking as long as you have fun and not spoil the fun for others ..

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  12. scorpria says:

    I absolutely hate people who can’t hold their drink — and i think you already know that if you read one of my recent posts 😀

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  13. Hitesh says:

    well….. the “Non Drinker” here……….. though… i have puked after eating a lot……..

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  14. Alka says:

    Its a scary scenario here in Gurgaon…teens are drinking and parents know it. It is cool to drink and brag about your knowledge about alcohol….when I say I dont drink people think of me as a behenje….but so be it.
    Proud of u.

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    • Bikram says:

      YEah i know, same here too on friday nights we can see it .. hald naked girls , boys drunk doing stupid things and then as you say bragging about it the next day …

      Well I dont know why drinking is a social status these days.. its got nothing to do with it ..

      Thank you so much.

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  15. Saritha says:

    Silence kills isn’t it,the weapon ur parents used on u.Good that u drink reasonably.

    I don’t hate people who drink but i hate when they drink too much and don’t bothered about the money they waste,family,spoil there health….

    Sometimes i give company to husband but i am always scared of my mom if she comes to know of that….

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    • Bikram says:

      Yepp it does.. I was expecting to be shouted at or even a slap but nothing …
      YEah I guess i hate them also now, I have a rule these days I dont go to pubs alone and if i have to drink I dont drive.. and also drink a proper Malt.. may be expensive but if you got to drink poison then drink a expensive one he hehe 🙂

      ooooh what if mum finds out he he he 🙂 shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh secret

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  16. Petty Witter says:

    Hi Bikram, I saw you on NRIGIRLS friendship tree and wanted to stop by to say hello. I’ve enjoyed my visit. Best wishes PW (I’m the hedgehog on the tree).

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    • Bikram says:

      Hey, welcome to my blog, thanks for coming and please do keep visitng .. and I will be coming over to yours for sure.
      Thanks and HEllo to you tooo , glad you enjoyed coming here

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  17. Chatterbox says:

    So glad to know that that one incident sobered you up for good 😛
    Great going Bikram 😀 😀

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  18. Madhu says:

    I must say my first thoughts were, “what the hell is wrong with Bikram. Its only Monday and he already drunk…lucky guy”…no kidding 🙂

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  19. Seena says:

    Yay way to go..nice to hear that incident changed you for good..

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    • Bikram says:

      Welcome here, Thank you for the visit please do keep visiting.
      yeah it did change the habit and i am happy it did.. even though some friends thought i was chickening out ..

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  20. Punam says:

    I think you had very sensible parents, Bikram and they chose the best way to teach you. I have also had similar ways.. you know, the fact that Papa never ever scolded me for anything or never stopped me from doing anything I pleased, put an extra responsibility over my shoulders to make sure that I don;t let his trust down. 🙂 That’s how it was with me.

    As for your decision, I am proud of you. 🙂

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    • Bikram says:

      Yeah I know how it feels when one is not stopped and given all the confidence.. and that adds more responsibility but then how many think that way, they think its there RIGHT to have all that from their parents.

      THanks for being proud though I dont know why cause I still drink and i doubt if i will ever give up altogether.. even though my dad did not drink.

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      • Punam says:

        Well, the will power and conviction is worth being proud of, coz I know how these things tend to get the better of u.. when I see young ppl around me.. say ‘hey dude, i am going for a smoke/drink’.. it sooo irritates me, and u know, i always felt.. why?

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  21. Rekha says:

    I won’t know that…put seeing enough drunks around and hearing puking stories i kind of sympathise….can’t understand why drink so much when its all gonna come out anyway…but could say the same for food too, I guess… 😛
    Ouch…for your little tryst with your parents….
    Enjoy your casual drinks….and don’t feel so bad about it… Cheers Paaji. 🙂

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    • Bikram says:

      Well now i also dont know why I did or why other did it.. I mean a few drinks to relax or have some fun is ok .

      yeah OUCH with the tryst with parents.. Haanji i do enjoy my drinks ..

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  22. V Rakesh says:

    from hic hic and harrowed to hip hip hurray 🙂

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  23. Purbaray says:

    LOL…I know that feeling…and the morning after arrrrghhh.

    And drinking responsibly is the way to be.

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  24. B K CHOWLA says:

    I did get drunk once while I lived in Bombay. It embarrassed me as much as it did so to the hosts.
    Since then i have always remained under control

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    • Bikram says:

      Chowla sir.. Excellent i guess one time was enough.
      Next time I come to india i would love to meet you and have a couple of drinks with you for sure 🙂

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  25. aneeta says:

    I liked the end….heh..heh! Don’t like to see ppl drunk n looking foolish!

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  26. Sapna says:

    good to see read the Hyappy Yending…

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  27. Shahid says:

    bhaijaan aap to sudhar gaye…..nice…and 10 yrs…you got to be kidding me

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    • Bikram says:

      he he he kahan sudhare.. 🙂 yeah that many years i have not fallen over and got it all out .. thats what it is but otherwise have had my share of fun and all 🙂
      how are you doing .. I still cant comment on ur blog WHYYYYYYYYYYYYY
      read your post on rayban baba .. and had to comment on the previous post hope you got it 🙂

      take care

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  28. Renu says:

    Its good you stopped..personally i nevr liked my husband drinking, because I saw many men drinking then loosing control on their tongue and gestures and making a fool of themselves..how could it be fun?

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    • Bikram says:

      I have not stopped altogether, I doubt if i can give it alltogether.
      yeah once drunk such things happened but thankfully i have stopped doing that altogether.. yeah how can that be fun when you dont know whats going on.. SO i like to be in my senses so i know what fun i am having..

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  29. UmaS says:

    U said it right. When a person is totally drunk, he feels he is the most sanest person in this world, while all the others are totally drunk…..I hate it when ppl blabber abt anything and everything when they are drunk…..

    Drinking more than u can handle is certainly going to be a killer – so why do ppl do it ???? I hate it….

    Gud u stopped….

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  30. Pixie says:

    😆

    I have seen a couple of friends get drunk and none of them have been a pretty scene!
    I’m glad you have cut down on the drinking… the next morning is never a good sight!

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    • Bikram says:

      🙂 it never is a pretty scene being drunk no matter what people say …

      Oh yes thats another thing that made me cut down on mine, the next morning how do you go to work.. the whole day goes waste I know.

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  31. Pepper says:

    To be honest, I love being around drunk people. They make me laugh and it is entertaining. But I’d hate it if others were to have fun at my expense.

    Glad to know you chose the sober path 🙂

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  32. Swaram says:

    🙂 🙂 🙂
    Sigh! Parents are the best 🙂

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  33. Self control is the most important virtue in this world, Glad that you made a good choice..!! 🙂

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  34. kavita says:

    You made the right choice Bikram .We must learn from our mistakes.
    How have you been Bikram ?

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    • Bikram says:

      Hey Kavita bhen how are you doing… So i guess you are back to blogging then .. How are you.. I am fine and doing great , God has been kind.

      Good to see you back.

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  35. Harish says:

    Superb post bro. got a high after reading it. 🙂 i am all for responsible drinking.

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  36. asha says:

    You are lucky to have parents who did not raise a hue and cry!

    Nice to hear about your choice of turning around, otherwise it has become a sort of fashion statement to flaunt what brand and how many pegs they have taken etc.. on social networks etc….

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    • Bikram says:

      Yes I am lucky but then all children are lucky to have parents ..
      YEah it has become a social status statement these days , showing off and all I too see a lot of that ..

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  37. Tomz says:

    Congrats to u Bikramjit..You have successfully expressed how it feels when you are drunk..To tell the truth I could express that feeling in words..

    and when you come to my place, treat at the nature food centre is assured..:)

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  38. Sharmila says:

    Drinking occasionaly is not bad but if one gets drunk it’s better for him/her to stop for good !! Happy u have learnt ur lesson … proud parents u have 🙂

    BTW there’s a gazal by Gulam Ali n one of my fav. “Hungama hai kyon barpa thodi si jo pili hai – daaka to nahi daala chori to nahin ki hai “

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    • Bikram says:

      Yeah I do hope my dad is proud of me wherever he is ..

      he he he Yeah i know that gazal.. and most drinkers do listen to gazals after a couple of pegs .. I do tooo ..

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  39. NRIGirl says:

    Hello hello Bikramjit! Sorry can’t quite relate to your post.

    Now, did you get a chance to visit Petty Witter? I see she has visited you and left a message. Please do. You will not be disappointed.

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  40. harman says:

    nice..at least ..you realised yourself…
    self realisation is the biggest accomplishment and setting goals for themselves!
    bravo!

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  41. Kavita says:

    lol… i had once written a poem-like thing when i was sober and the rest of my friends were drunk… and then I wondered how it would have been on the other days… (shuddering at the thought itself!)
    Your post made me relive some memories.. funny now.. but not so funny then! 🙂

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    • Bikram says:

      🙂 OK well send mea link of that i would love to read it tooo and imagine what my friends might hav thought when i was drunk.

      Yeah the next day NO , not a good sight…
      Glad it brough memories funny ones …

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  42. Raksha says:

    Alcohol aur uske side effects:P…little is good is what ppl say…as a doctor i say ‘none’ is good:)…btw Sirji aap ke liye hamare blog mein kuch hai…zaroor aakar le jayiye:)

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    • Bikram says:

      ohhh but i thought doctors recommend to have one ..
      and YEssssssssssssssssssss I saw the award yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy le liye le liya Thank you so muchhhhhhhhhhhhh 🙂

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  43. Raksha Bhat says:

    Alcohol aur uske side effects:P…little is good is what ppl say…as a doctor i say ‘none’ is good:)btw Sirji aap ke liye hamare blog mein kuch hai,zaroor aakar le jayiye:)

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  44. Reminded me of my husband in his younger days 🙂

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  45. Meera says:

    Well Bikram, drinking per se is ok but what is not ok is the inability of the person drinking to hold their drink. This inability results in a lot of misbehaviour and often dangers like accidents on roads.

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    • Bikram says:

      YEs Fully agree with you. hence the reson to drink only as much as I can hold.
      and ooooh never never drink and drve NEVER.. If i get caught i will loose my job, and it goes on record and wont get another one soon enough…

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  46. Always Happy says:

    Good going Bik. Good , you rparents’ silence taught you the right lesson.

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  47. suruchi says:

    10 years ago..matlab ki jab aap college mein the?
    matlab ke abhi aapko college chodhe 10 years he hue hain?
    matlab ki aap abhi bhi jawaan ho…matlab ki mere se zyaada jawaan?
    matlab ki…arre mein bhool gaye kya matlab abhi!
    and this when i am totally sober;-)

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    • Bikram says:

      haanji college main tha.. jab aise pange liya karte the 🙂
      hainnnnnn matlab ki aap mere ko BUDHA samajhte rahe
      Matlab ki haye haye yeh sunne se pehle mere kaan fat kyun nahin gaye
      MAtlab ki meri handsome so PHOTO dekh ke aapko yeh laga ki main BUDHA hoon
      MAtlab ki woh jo itni tareef ki thi aapne woh aven hi thi
      matlab ji yeh
      matlab ki woh 🙂

      matlab ki aap sober ho .. to jab handsome lag raha tha to pakka DARUUU pi hogi aapne Now i know main to aven hi bhangra kar raha tha yeh sunke ki aapne meri tareef ki hayeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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  48. Dee says:

    You have such wise and lovely parents, and the change you made is definitely praiseworthy! Keep it up Bikram! Liked your post! And the first part of being drunk was funny!Being a teetotaler, I wud not have known the symptoms but this really made me chuckle!

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  49. Anu says:

    I don’t like people who drink and mess around or shout around in public places…They can consume alcohol as long as it doesn’t get to their head…

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  50. raj says:

    Nice thing you did sir!

    Was very busy and will be busy for a week and then on will be regular!

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  51. Jzt4me says:

    For some off reason…my perspective on drinking is CUT and DRY…Either drink and dont be anywhere near me…or DONT drink and be near….Somehow i hate that habit..and 95% of my friends are from the Non-drinking community…or those tht take beer once in a blue moon..ONLY beer…uhmm…

    As far as my philosophy…u drink responsibly or irresponsibly…DRINKING IS AN IRRESPONSIBLE HABIT…Why have a habit, if its clearly understood that it is injurious to health…uhmm..so naturally, u r irresponsible to ur health…

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    • Bikram says:

      I get ur point too.. But alcohol is not bad its only bad when taken in large quantities .. and too much..
      GLad to know ur friend dont drink.. so does that mean I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND ANYMORE …

      bolo bolo tell tell

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  52. Jzt4me says:

    If I am being asked…I would say…Drink Responsibly or Irresponsibly…Drinking is an Irresponsible Habit…If it is known to u that drinking is injurious to health, then why maintain such a habit…if it does NO specific good to u, then why grow such a habit…Above all, if ur parents doesnt actually approve of it, then why unnecassarily build it up…

    Tel me something, by drinking are u gaining anything…other than some points less in ur health…Anyways..this is my view..as for me…If u r drunk be it one peg or 1000peg…be away from me…Neither I drink nor I support people who drink…

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    • Bikram says:

      Yes whatever you say is right but you got to be in that group of friends when u sit together and talk and talk and talkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk and have all that fun
      as long as you are not spoiling it for someone else and not doing stupid things .. I still think its ok

      I do agree with all that you have said 🙂 when i meet you i will keep all this in mind he he he hehe 🙂

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  53. Nethra says:

    I don’t booze though I wish otherwise. 😛

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    • Bikram says:

      Hmm.. Well always a first time for everything he he he NOT that i recommend it to anyone. 🙂

      No seriously good you dont’ booze you are not missing much …

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