Liars :- yeah this post is on LIARS

Posted: February 4, 2011 in Bum, Cheaters, Liars, Loyalty, Media, Men, Women
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This post might not be liked by many but over the years and with a few experiences that I have had in this life, I have found that on the whole We the people have somehow managed to master the art of cheating, lieing , disloyal basically the art of anything that would hurt the other human being.

Lets have a look at the above statement that I just made, have a think and look around yourself or anywhere, relationships these days don’t work as when it started it was different and now after some time people realise that what impressed them most about the other person simply does not exist, it never did cause it was sold to them at the start with a blatant, shameless lie.. For which we fell and now suddenly the truth dawned on to us and we found the REAL THEM…

Look at the way media plays around us creating this big world full of lies or stuff which may not have existed , what we think as truth turns out to be a big lie and what we thought was a lie was in fact the truth.. I mean media turns anything into ANYTHING… if you get the zest of it; I recently posted an ad on Harvey that just shows how we are influenced by media…

We are all the more inclined and are totally devoted to do things to create expectations which we know we are not going to fulfil especially towards people we say we love or care for ..

A few examples I picked out for example What do you guys think about BOTOX why was it invented, Well I feel that too was invented so we could LIE about our age it’s another thing that we have started using it to enhance our looks and other body parts depending on who or WHAT we are ..

Same way the Lipstick It was not initially about making lips look bright and pretty. It was about hiding black, chapped, smoker lips or covering up thin, pursed, ugly lips and giving a woman a more inviting, more pleasant look. This was fine as long as you did not take the woman home and wake up the next morning beside her in bed and discover that, in the bright light of morning and minus her makeup, hair extensions, coloured lenses and double push up bras, she looked nothing like the woman you had dated the night before.

We all are always looking for a new option constantly since we are disappointed with the ones we have at the moment ,  I am on a Orange mobile contract with a Xperia X10 but I want the company to give me a new Iphone 4 on the same contract, ok they say NO..  so I get angry at them and threaten to change the providers , They also add a juicy bit to it Ok Mr. Mann we will give you 50 picture messages a month and 100 minutes of video calls free for each month, so Mr. Mann is happy but we forget that they have all there infrastructure set up , does it matter to them if they give me a few more messages I am still paying over the top for the top end handset which obviously after showing off for a week or two will lose its charm and will again be just a Mobile which I want to change to Iphone 5 launching in June 🙂  (Ooooh with that I bet, I have started the rumour mills running too)

Iphone 4 promised so much but it failed at delivering and it’s got umpteen problems, cause that what happens, promise more than one can deliver at least something will be delivered is the idea , That explains continuing shifts in brand loyalty, and frequent breakdowns in relationships of trust.

A FACT… trust is the first casualty in the Age of Consumerism, even marriages are built on this no wonder divorces are so rampant. Hence one feels all cheated especially on the things that you have been fantasising like the lust for a woman and then discovering that her gorgeous assets are silicon-based.  Thats Cheating…

The new thing that has come up PANTS for men who have sagging bums, it’s like the bras that came to boost the size of women’s Asset .  Just imagine how both the couple would feel when they take their clothes off and find the CHEATING 🙂  I am sure a few people can come with other ideas to design clothes that would help the opposite genders to go WOW !!!   but then why am I talking about men I don’t think it justifies if women have been doing it for so many years and getting away it then why not men 🙂 I wonder where this war to cheat will take us…

To all those liars and cheaters .. Cheers to you all Have fun

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Comments
  1. Tanishka says:

    Lol at those new pants 😀 😀
    But seriously everything is fake these days and turns disappointing the moment we disover the truth…
    God knows where will all this lies and artificiality will take us to…

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    • Bikram says:

      🙂 yepp as one of the comments above said NAKED TRUTH … 🙂

      What can God do, we are so pathetic we have not left him alone too, and have taken GOD too along with us in our life of LIES and then we say OH GOD!!!

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  2. Phoenixritu says:

    Serously? Do they have those pants??? And Bikky I trust my dogs more than I trust human beings. They dont pretend wag their tails.

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    • Bikram says:

      🙂 yes they have something on that pattern, I guess i shud go and visiti M & S superstore who knows what i can find HEEE HAYYYYYYYYYYYY 🙂

      and yes DOGS so true Ritu di.. so true they are better then humans totally agree with you on this one …

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  3. RGB says:

    Ha, ha…true, bitter and funny…the heights (/depths) that people would go to, to impress someone! Maybe that’s why they call it ‘naked truth’!!! LOL ;D

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    • Bikram says:

      Hi RGB. Wow seeing you after a long time .. How you doing .. and yes i like that word NAKED TRUTH its only then that truth comes out .. till them it seems a bundle of lies …

      Thanks RGB and dont forget to NOT come now …

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  4. Deepika says:

    Agree.. We are cheated at every point nowadays. Not just women or men in modification of naturality but also in our morals. Hypocrites? Yeah! Totally. Fake ppl. Fake world.

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    • Bikram says:

      Oh yes .. what you say is VERY TRUE… each one seems to be like that all are looking after Numero UNO which is themselves and in that who they hurt doesnot matter .. and worst is they dont even look back to see what they have caused … but then maybe we are doing the same to someone else .. LIFE

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  5. “The biggest problem with liars is not that no one believes them, but they are not able to believe any one!”

    If ppl can understand the truth in the above quotation, they will reduce lying. I did, to a huge extant. 🙂

    Destination Infinity

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    • Bikram says:

      hmmm so true we are all in catch 22 situation i guess.. do we beleive or no or does anyone beleive us cause we dont beleive them ..

      Thanks D I .. goood very gooood

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  6. Ananya says:

    Well I don’t know.
    Those lies or cheats wouldn’t have existed if people didn’t hate the truth so much.
    I mean, all those modifications exist not ’cause you want to cheat the other person, but ’cause the other person will only notice him/her ’cause they look fabulous with those modifications and not otherwise.

    I hope I made sense. :/

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    • Bikram says:

      YEs you did.. it is true .. what you say tooo thats what is life .. but we have gone too far now with all the fakeness and lies.. who can you trust these days .. boys-girls have affairs lasting years and then one fine day they deicde bye bye..

      and the lies they tell when they first meet it seems every relation is a lie now …

      THanks ananya 🙂

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  7. bloggergirl12 says:

    Lies were invented to hide the truth… truth that even though we know is better we are all so afraid to face… about botox, double push-up bras, hair extensions, I know women do all that… but the very man who took the woman home that night wouldn’t have taken if she wasn’t “accessorized”… We have too high opinions of ourselves and we think we all deserve George Clooney or Scarlett Johanson!! In the race to appeal and attaract the opposite sex we have all forgotten our natural beauty… I have seen a lot of girls look much better without pounds of makeup and fake accessories on them… Makeup doesn’t always make people look better!!

    About the phone… I TOLD YOU not to get iPhone 4 but as always you didn’t LISTEN!! You still went for the shiny glossy “In-Market” item… to look cool!! (**does this sound familiar**)

    We all lie… in one way or the other… all we need to do is to learn to accept the reality and live with the truth!! There is a saying in Guru Granth Sahib… “Truth is good… but what is better is “Truthful Living”!!

    Mannat’s World…

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    • Bikram says:

      OH nooooooooo I have not gone for it.. this is the conversation i had with the guy.. Have not got it thand rakho thand.. listened to you..sachi.. will reply shortly just wanted to clear this first 🙂 NO IPHONE 🙂

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  8. IRFANUDDIN says:

    liars and cheaters….. these are two different breed i suppose….
    every one happen to be a liar one way or other… but not necessarily a cheater….
    certain lies we use to take for granted now a days, as long they are harmless to any one..
    and what about this new PANT…. ???? well may be possible, we have advanced a lot,

    BTW a nice read all together…..:)

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  9. Hmmm… you know what, sometimes I do feel truth is over-rated. I’d rather resort to harmless lies if the truth is going to hurt somebody. It may not be honest, but it sure is kind.

    Coming to cheating – it is a grave issue for me and I can’t see any justification behind it. It is one of the worst things you could do to somebody. And I have no respect for anybody who does it! Liars, I am OK with but cheaters, no way!

    Coming to looks – We all like to look beautiful right? Dolling up is mostly because of that. Not with an intention to hide your real self but strut yourself better. Sometimes it may get out of proportion but the intention mostly is not to cheat but to polish and shine 🙂
    PS: I would love to see men in those pants 😛 Interesting!

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    • Swaram says:

      I totally agree with Rays 🙂

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    • Bikram says:

      Totally agree with you// TRUTH is over rated ..

      agree also on cheating why would you want to do that .. and if you have to then break your relation and go with the other one, but dont hurt anyone.. people do that so much these days they want not one but 2 -3 or 4 people to love or whatever… From my experience i know its the worst one can do cause i know how it hurts when you get cheated on …

      🙂 OK i agree with that too polish and shine If you say so he heheheehhe

      and Pants thats got a lot of people interested .. I am looking when i buy one will post a pic HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HAA 🙂

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  10. DEVIL'S BLOG says:

    I don’t disagree with you.

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  11. Daniel says:

    I agree with that.. We all lies sometimes and not telling the truth… anyways good blog, I read it sometimes, keep it up(Y)

    http://www.danielarticles.blogspot.com

    – Daniel

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  12. Writerzblock says:

    You know Bikki, trying to look better is not wrong. What is wrong is that people get obsessed with looks. And hey, marketing does involve lying, though it isn’t supposed to!! Er, btw, those new pants, have they been launched yet? 😉 Just kidding!!

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  13. NRIGirl says:

    Loved it! Now, trust me that is not a lie!! 🙂

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  14. harman says:

    lol…wht a post…about liars and cheaters..DUDE..its all marketing and business…whether..its concerned with fake assets or make up or i phone…
    I personally believe in selling the product on its merits and quality….no false hopes…I am into marketing…
    but why single out a women??..only..every one wants to look good…
    ..everyone wants to see a pretty face…do you like to see a freckled dark complexion women with you,or an un-groomed lady..by your side??
    tell me the truth!!!
    🙂

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    • Bikram says:

      Thanks Harman.
      YEah but i guess if they start to do it just on merits and quality they would not get many buyers so they use other means …
      and No no no I am not singling out at all.. sorry if it felt that way .. Men are at it too.. I know jsut got more examples of women thats all…

      I totally understand what you say but what i wanted to say was why go overboard getting botox, and other plastic surgery.. I completly understand enhancing the beauty.. NOT making a BEAUTY thats what i wanted to say …

      moreover what i think is beautiful may not be beautiful for someone else …

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  15. Anu says:

    Who is not cheating?? Every single person is in the bandwagon! As long as there are people who get cheated!
    LOL @ the pants and the rants they can do 😉

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  16. raji1082 says:

    One inspirational ,factious ,hilarious post:)Liked the lines about dresses..:)

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  17. Sapna says:

    Your post reminded me of a message I received some time back which said “Women fall in love by what they hear. Men fall in love by what they see. That’s why most of the women put make up and most of the men lie” 🙂

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    • Bikram says:

      🙂 great so now we know why men lie .. jsut ot get to the woman .. but hey not a bad idea to get the girl of your dreams ha ha hah 🙂 lovely joke thanks for sharing

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  18. onkar says:

    Very profound and very true

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  19. Pooja says:

    I agree completely, and its true, we all lie cheat and do things that will put us in a better light in front of others, and we blame the society, which we have created.
    Its like a vicious circle.

    If i know of a friend who’s got some kind of facial done and is looking better than me, I’ll go there and get it done for myself. Similarly its for guys, if you see a fellow wearing a better shirt than yours, you will want the same brand immediately.

    But if take time and think about it, just for a minute, about why we really want it, will it make us happy then maybe we will realize that its not worth it at all. IF we have a sense of contentment within us, no matter what the temptation is we will not fall for it.

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    • Bikram says:

      Thanks you Pooja. so true viscious circle the one made by us only.. 🙂

      Yeah too right , I got to have the brand cause he has it, I have to have the Iphone cause someone in the gang has it ..

      sense of contentment THATS what we dont have.. god knows when or WHAT will fulfill that and make us content …

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  20. UmaS says:

    Its how the world has changed right ??? Is it becos ppl find these ever-changing lies to be more exciting than the no-changing honesty !!! Like the mobiles and their features which keep changing every now and then, ppl are certainly crazy abt things which change fast – and what better thing than LIE – it can change super fast. Why, even our life-style has changed to super-fast changing one from the leisurely slow enjoy-every-moment pace !!!!

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    • Bikram says:

      Yes Its how the world have become to be .. Yes you are right lies make things more exciting .. a man cheats on his wife causeh e has a girl on the side and its gets exciting i beleive .. cause end of the day what he can have from the girl on the side he can have from the wife too.. so why he needs to cheat ?
      and if he has to cheat then why not talk to the wife 🙂 what if the wife then decides to have a guy on the side i bet the husband wont like that …

      Yes indeed what better thing than LIE… even the people who sell us stuff lie they dont tell us the small print 🙂

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  21. Chatterbox says:

    The overflow of fake and ‘edited-to-impress’ versions have given us the tendency to doubt everyone and everything we come across 😦
    That’s one interesting post and I loved the cartoon in the end 😛

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    • Bikram says:

      YEs so true CB we have started to be suspicious of everything , but then we have brought all that on ourself.. by being the way we are …
      Glad you liked the cartoon it happens in that way toooo …

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  22. B K CHOWLA says:

    Bikram, it is a great post.Shows how close have you been to life and you sure have been very observant.
    Clothes–That was funny.

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  23. dr.antony says:

    No life,without lies !

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  24. Alka says:

    Never occurred to me that I was cheating while applying lipstick…lol. There is remedy for uplifting saggy bums and boobs and everything which is defying gravity.

    However one innocuous lie that i commit often is, “Honey I am home in 2 minutes”.

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    • Bikram says:

      He he he he , i did not say that 🙂 just thinking why lipstick was invented hmmm ..

      he hehe and yeah lot of remed’ies for everything ..

      oooops and I am sure Honey doesnot see you back in 2 minutes ha ha ha ha ..

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  25. Tanvi says:

    Oh my god Bikram… 😛 Its hilarious, truth at its best.. 🙂 🙂

    Cheers,

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  26. Enigma says:

    Yes, today it seems as if every one around has mastered the art of lying and deceiving others. It’s hard to trust people.

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  27. rohini says:

    i commented ..and missed.//the pic is too good..,,its [painting perfect…:)

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  28. rohini says:

    oops wrong comment at wrong post….

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  29. Sandhya says:

    You notice a lot of things, Bikram! I have seen some actresses who look better without make-up and our relatives too! Painted faces look beautiful in pictures but in person, they look odd!

    In some areas, people are compelled to lie whether they like it or not, like in marketing…unless the products ‘look’ good, they cannot sell them, e.g. clothes. The quality might get compromised on the way!

    We have accepted so many things for just face value and we are going to continue doing so!

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    • Bikram says:

      thank you so much. Yeah some of the actresses do that a lot..

      I know what you say , I dont habe anything against what people do , i wrote this as a observation, nothing for or agaisnt anyone .. Just we are all either getting sucked in by cheats and liars or we are becoming one tooo …

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  30. Rek says:

    The world has been fake right from the beginning…lying and cheating comes easily to some…we do have to lie even if we don’t want to in order to avoid intrusive persons…
    the world wants to see the glam and the street smart….and people mould themselves to fit in…its not easy to be left behind…
    as for face paint and body jobs, a lot of women especially older can go easy on it… but the fact of the matter is the average guy loses interest in you or worse ditches you for a younger prettier version unless you join the bandwagon….
    look at at marriage ads even today…”gori chitti, slim, beautiful” is still a fantasy of every Indian male….can u blame the poor girls for trying to level up to the insane expectations?
    as for the saying we used to recite in school”cheaters never prosper”…just look at our ministers and middlemen…
    today motto is “lie and cheat,
    anyhow, anyone,
    if you want to stay in the race”
    engrossing and thought provoking post….

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    • Bikram says:

      Yes it is true lying and cheating is part of us all now.

      I can understand what you saying … Yeah its stupid the marriage ads seems that fat people or the ones who are not so beautiful cant get married .. and what makes me smile is they say chiti thats white and WE ARE NOT WHITE
      we are brown faced or black …

      whites are westerners .. yet we want to be like them and they want to have brown skin and get tanned and all WEIRD …

      and perfectly agree with you on the phrase CHEAT and PROPSER 🙂 that shud be the motto

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  31. I personally feel ‘to lie’ is man’s one of the greatest achievements! no wonder we practice lying right from a tender age when we often forget doing our school work! that how we master the art…

    they once painted my face before i went live on TV… Tht was whn i was in school and our team gt selectd for Bourvita Quiz contest semi finals… I thought i looked horrible whn i saw my face in the mirror.. infact my partner was busy laughing at me, and missed to answer an important bonus pt earner! 😦 but in TV, i looked okay.. ppl told me so! guess lying works.. afterall…

    i have no problem, lying…

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    • Bikram says:

      I second that thought to lie is what we have achieved so far..
      you were on TV wowowow 🙂 I am sure you looked great on tele

      good if you have no problem cause thats what is required in todays age to prosper LIE 🙂

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  32. Purbaray says:

    Someone is fuming 😛 But seriously it all stems from low self esteem. If you can’t love yourself, how can you love others.

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  33. Rachna says:

    It is the age of make believe. Everyone tom toms their ability and most often it is a lie or a distortion of the truth. Lying about your life to get a partner is a serious crime, but wearing clothing or make up is still harmless, and in case of models and filmstars, a demand of their careers. Come on, the film industry would collapse if we saw the hideous filmstars without make up, lighting and good clothes. I shiver to imagine what most of them look like in real life :).

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    • Bikram says:

      oooh lieing to get a partner hmmmm yes it is a crime but why do it and how long can one lie cause end of the day one does get found out…

      yeah indeed the film industry will collapse for sure 🙂 he hehehe yeah some of the heroes and girls are horrific , even I am better looking then some ha ha haha

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  34. bedazzled says:

    It’s scary to note where the word’s going..

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  35. aneeta says:

    Hey, people do change over the years (and so do we ourselves), so its not about being liars, but coping with the changing values/attitudes. Also physical stuff is not the ultimate…its whats in the mind that counts!(if that remians constant or grows its fine)

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  36. Bingo.. u hit the bulls eye, but i’m just wondering we humans r made of so much imperfections that makes as superior (according to our words), guess mistakes r just n add on… but yes , now we r not ready to take anything n compromise..

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  37. Rajesh says:

    very much right u r dear. Actually it better to say that every day or can say after every hour we use hurt some one either directly or indirectly

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  38. Milan says:

    Bickram …. yeh kya jhooth jhooth laga rakhi hai …. us Indians are born with this art …. hum Patiala waley toh Lie karney mein mahir hein … toh kya nayee baat hai …. you have stated the obvious !!! Good on you, Bro.

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    • Rajesh says:

      right u r dear but must say ki….. hun indians woh jooth boltey hain jisse kisi ko koi nuksan na ho or aapna bhi enjoy ho jaye. phir woh chahe patiala wale hon yaa chd wale ya Urmar Tanda (Hoshiarpur) wale. But we indians (spl punjabi) enjoy our life where ever v goes. So enjoyyyyyyyy…….. bravoooo

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    • Bikram says:

      Milan 🙂 yeha i know we got it in our genes all this … lai why you say patiale waale .. no no we are from the princely state of patiala.. we dont lie :O ha ha haha
      Thanks a lot Milan

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  39. Cherry says:

    Gud one…Truth of Life..!!! In Fact we all are Liars… Advocates Lie in the courts to defend their clients… Leave the politicians aside… MBA managers straight forwardly Lie to the Public in one way or the others…. Business man ; cant work without a Lie… Even Teachers in the schools sometimes Lie to their student JUST to prove their point…..& Then they all say these are working tactics…. Sometimes some Lies are not cheating BUT to straighten up the things…

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  40. Jyothi says:

    I am an ace at detecting lies now! Years and years of experience!!!! He he …..no way out…..the world lives on lies…..

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  41. Pixie says:

    I with you… nice post!
    But, I try as much as possible to stick to the truth!
    If can’t speak the truth – I try to keep quiet rather than lying….

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  42. suruchi says:

    it is almost as though lying has become a style statement
    if not blatant lying biky, many indulge in not wording the truth and keeping mum about it when confronted…
    lying has sadly become a part of life…so much that even the most earnest of emotions when expressed are doubted…sigh!

    loved the cartoon…
    loved the analogy and the examples of men n women taking off their clothes…for reasons mentioned by u alone:-)

    sorry wasn’t frequent here coz was not getting the updates..so i am freshly following u again..watch out;-)

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    • Bikram says:

      YEs it is in us now .. as u say a style statement the bigger the liar the better off they are …

      Yes true what u say ..
      lai acha reason diya tha maine .. aap hi kaise kaise sochte ho he he he he ..
      and dont worry about not coming now you know where to come .. yes WATCHING Outtttttttt aaaane do …

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  43. dr.antony says:

    What is life without lies !

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