Archive for April, 2010


Posted: April 12, 2010 in Family, Pagadi, random, Sardari, Soch

We all love Sardarji jokes. But do you know that Sikhs are one of the hardest working prosperous and diversified communities in the world. My friend told me about the following incident which I wish to share with you.

It has had a deep impact on my thinking.

During last vacation, his few friends came to Delhi . They rented a taxi for local sight-seeing. The driver was an old Sardar and boys being boys, these pals began cracking Sardarji jokes, just to tease the old man. But to their surprise, the fellow remained unperturbed.

At the end of the sight-seeing, they paid the cab hire-charges. The Sardar returned the change, but he gave each one of them one rupee extra and said,

“Son, since morning you have been telling Sardarji jokes.. I listened to them all and let me tell you, some of them were in bad taste. Still, I don’t mind coz I know that you are young blood and are yet to see the world..
But I have one request. I am giving you one rupee each. Give it to the first Sardar beggar that you come across in this or any other city.”

My friend continued, “That one rupee coin is still with me. I couldn’t find a single Sardar begging anywhere.”


The secret behind their universal success, is their willingness to do any job with utmost dedication and pride. A Sardar will drive a truck or set up a roadside garage or a dhaba, put a fruit juice stall, take up small time carpentry, … but he will never beg on the streets.

Shocked , Disturbed , Angry , WTF.. are a few words that come to mind.. After hearing and then reading the news about that Maoist attack on our Security men , how they were lured into a place, trapped and killed..

Well But what is more shocking is WHAT THE HELL IS THE GOVERNMENT DOING.. I have always said and believed that IF Govt wants it can control the situation.. the question is IF.. the problem in our country is every single individual person who can do something about it , has some sort of Hidden agenda behind every Thought or decision they make.

More disturbing is the comments they come out with and the passing the buck starts.. the Home Minister P Chidambaram “I told him (Bhattacharjee) the buck stops with you and he must ensure that the buck stops with the SP or the officer in-charge”.. I am sure the CM will say its state govt.. and so on and so forth THIS will carry on.. Till the next incident.. and Then another Dialogue of our HOME MINISTER “Naxals are cowards. Why are they hiding in forests?” ..

They are not cowards , they are doing the best they can in there situations, they are in forest cause they are SAFE there.. What the hell is our Home-Minister talking about, he expects these people to come out in open ground , maybe have a Loudspeaker or something “We are Naxal, we are here, we are 10 men, we have this, this and this as weapons, we will be here for a couple of hours , having a picnic”… WILL THIS INFO BE GOOD ENOUGH

When will we Learn from our mistakes and actually do something.. ?
A lot of questions need answering but Now its time for action, Our Leaders are as I mentioned earlier mere idiots, who have no reason to solve the problems.. Otherwise How can this happen. We are hypocrite people who still go ga ga over the thought that we won the war again Pakistan , we did this BUT If we stop , think for a moment DID WE WIN … DID WE ?

“If this is war, we will fight back”.. said our home minister.. WHEN .. TOMORROW.. the tomorrow which never comes ..

WHAT are they waiting for?

The so called security agencies say one thing, while the HM says another..

Where is the coordination here.. ? DISGUSTING it is .. SOLDIERS have died Mr. Home minister.. SOLDIERS… and to top it he says that results will be expected in 3 to 4 years ..

The security forces look so vulnerable even after the set up of jungle warfare school and equipped with modern weaponry, Still the Maoist seem to have a upper hand, they are more flexible, agile and Intelligent, Obviously there strategists are better then our’s.

The Govt has to take a stand, if it is WAR which it IS.. and which our home minister also thinks, (Blimey who told him that), casualties are inevitable. Security forces will kill or get killed, Which is understandable but whats troublesome is that despite having more resources, better technology and far superior fire power and training, that is so baffling.

And then saying the men did a mistake going or getting themselves into a trap, but more than the men those who gave the orders appear responsible for the tragedy. It’s time, therefore, for some bureaucratic heads to roll. Because their complete lack of accountability is what seems to be dragging the operation down.

Living in 2010


1. You accidentally enter your password on the microwave.

2 You haven’t played solitaire with real cards in years.

3. You have a list of 15 phone numbers to reach your family of 3.

4. You e-mail the person who works at the desk next to you.

5. Your reason for not staying in touch with friends and family is that they don’t have e-mail addresses / facebook / Myspace / twitter / Gtalk / MSN .

6. You pull up in your own driveway and use your cell phone to see if anyone is home to help you carry in the groceries.

7 Every commercial on television has a web site at the bottom of the screen.

8. Leaving the house without your cell phone, which you didn’t have the first 20 or 30 (or 60) years of your life, is now a cause for panic and you turn around to go and get it.

10. You get up in the morning and go on line before getting your coffee.

11. You start tilting your head sideways to smile. : )

12 You’re reading this and nodding and laughing.

13. Even worse, you know exactly to whom you are going to tell about this article.

14. You are too busy to notice there was no #9 on this list..

15. You actually Looked up up to check that there wasn’t a #9 on this list

duhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh wakey wakey

I am again going to attempt the pointers on how life is/was going/went I am new to this so I will start from what went on ..

1. Went to do what I used to do , before I left on 28th February.. so a WOWOWOWWO for that , am sure a lot of people would have guessed it what that was, I can’t write it on Open space. The conditions of the Job.

2. Heating is back on . its gone cold again .. predicting snow tomorrow…

3. Not done anything worth mentioning the whole week

4. Haven’t seen any episode of Lost/24 and I love those programs.. 😦

5. Punjab XI the team I support is getting hammered left-right and centre, planning to desert them… Lets see what they do today..

6. Saurav Ganguly the cricketer I am a fan is not doing anything worthwhile.

7. Heard Mum’s knees are giving way 😦

8. Garden needs a overhaul after the winters mess.

9. I have made it worse by chopping off the big tree , its lying in the garden, rotting , rain.

10. Two fishes died yesterday, the pond needs a clean..

11. Have a intruder in the pond , two frogs have made home in there..

12. Daffodils , crocus have come out.. look lovely in the mess.. Need to take some more days off to sort it out..

13. Family has come over, for something that may happen at weekend .. so be ready

14. Vikram / Cherry my friends say they might come to see me WOWOWOWOW…

15. My car is BACK.. ,mmmmmmmmmmuuuuuuuuuuuuuuaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Thats all I could think of BUT I managed 15 so WOWOW

If you want someone who will eat whatever you put in front of him and never say it’s not quite as good as his mother’s

..then adopt a dog.

If you want someone always willing to go out, at any hour,
for as long and wherever you want …

..then adopt a dog.

If you want someone who will never touch the remote, doesn’t care about football, and can sit next to you as you watch romantic movies

…then adopt a dog.

If you want someone who is content to get on your bed just to
warm your feet and whom you can push off if he snores

..then adopt a dog !

If you want someone who never criticizes what you do, doesn’t care if you are pretty or ugly, fat or thin, young or old, who acts as if every word you say is especially worthy of listening to, and loves you unconditionally, perpetually ..

..then adopt a dog.

BUT, on the other hand, if you want someone who will never come when you call, ignores you totally when you come home, leaves hair all over the place, walks all over you, runs around all night and only comes home to eat and sleep, and acts as if your entire existence is solely to ensure his/her happiness .,


..then adopt a cat!

Who needs anyone else …


I’ have learned that you can-not Make Someone love you..
All you can do is STALK them and HOPE they panic and give in..

I’ve learned that No matter how much some say they are your FRIENDS
they never will be , cause they dont know the meaning of it…

I’ve learned that no matter how much I care,
Some people are just ARSEHOLES

I’ve learned that it takes years to build up TRUST,
and it only takes suspicion to destroy it.

I’ve learned that you can get by on charm for about fifteen MINUTES,
After that, you’d better have a big willy or huge Boobs..

I’ve learned that you shouldn’t compare yourself to others,
they are more screwed up then you think…

I’ve learned that you can keep vomiting long after you think you’re finished.

I’ve learned that we are RESPONSIBLE for what we do,
Unless we are CELEBRITIES..

I’ve learned that regardless of how HOT or STEAMY a relationship is at first,
Passion fades, and there had better be a lot of money to take its place …

I’ve learned that 99% of the time when something isn’t working in the house..
One of your kids did it …

I’ve learned that the people you care the most about in life are taken from you too soon.. and the less important ones NEVER GO AWAY

I’ve learned that The only people you need in your life are the ones that Prove they need you in theirs

I’ve learned that You will never know how STRONG you are,
Until being strong is the only choice you have left …

I’ve learned that your FRIENDS are those who know all about you and STILL LIKE YOU..

I’ve learned that there is a point in your life when you realise Who Matters, Who NEVER DID, Who always Will and Who wont anymore
So don’t worry about people from PAST.. there is a REASON they didn’t make to your future

This World well at least the world i am living in , I have realised one thing in my experiences is so full of hypocrite people, who say they are your friends and then they are the first ones to stab you in your back…. Or worst in your heart…

They have this great way of using words , wish I was skillful enough to use such vocabulary and use the magic of words to make a fool.

I have had this experience for a few days now, one of my FRIENDS (supposedly) tell me how bad I am .. To me When a friend is sad or helpless or in trouble that’s the time when you should be supporting them, It does not matter who is right or wrong.. Stand by them at that time, later on you may go and tell them they were wrong.

Friend is someone who knows what you are going through and accepts you as you are with all the Good things and the bad things … But then that’s me I forgot in today’s materialistic life , people change in a second, If it will help them they will change there own mothers or fathers for a quick profit, so who the hell is a FRIEND.

Its amazing how when all the time you had gone out of your way to help this friend, been there when there so called best mates left them to hang dry, when there was no one to tell them they are OK , things will change, how at that time you were like god to them, then at the next instant you were the worst thing to have happened to them…

I hate such people and a part of me wishes them bad, a Part of me wishes to see them fall down on there face and suffer, a part of me wishes that I should leave them alone and they can go to hell.

Why do such people come in one’s life, why don’t they meet there own kind have a group of them and live there life with themselves … How easy it is for them to go out fun and frolicking .. while you sit there thinking , what did you do wrong…

Sometimes I feel , I think this way , it could be that
I am the one who is wrong ,
I am the one who should change
I am the one who is actually wrong
I am the hypocrite one ..

So many questions but not many answers, wish someone could be a FRIEND to me and tell me the truth…


again the useless rants of a useless person … sorry to have wasted your time people …..

Going by the comments on my last note Decision Making a lot would do various things .. but as asked it was to take a decision to change course of train or not .. All the decisions are the right ones, and THANK YOU all for the comments.

We might choose to divert the course of the train, and sacrifice only one child for minimum casualties. Exactly, I thought the same way initially because to save most of the children at the expense of only one child was rational decision most people would make, morally and emotionally. But, have you ever thought that the child choosing to play on the disused track had in fact made the right decision to play at a safe place?

Nevertheless, he had to be sacrificed because of his ignorant friends who chose to play where the danger was. This kind of dilemma happens around us everyday. In the office, community, in politics and especially in a democratic society, the minority is often sacrificed for the interest of the majority, no matter how foolish or ignorant the majority are, and how farsighted and knowledgeable the minority are. The child who chose not to play with the rest on the operational track was sidelined. And in the case he was sacrificed, no one would shed a tear for him.

On other hand it is also right to let the train take its course because the kids playing on the operational track should have known very well that track was still in use, and that they should have run away if they heard the train’s sirens. If the train was diverted, that lone child would definitely die because he never thought the train could come over to that track!

Moreover, that track was not in use probably because it was not safe. If the train was diverted to the track, we could put the lives of all passengers on board at stake! And in your attempt to save a few kids by sacrificing one child, you might end up sacrificing hundreds of people to save these few kids.

While we are all aware that life is full of tough decisions that need to be made, we may not realize that hasty decisions may not always be the right one.

so the MORAL :-

Remember that what’s right isn’t always popular… and what’s popular isn’t always right.