Archive for February 9, 2010

Parting .. Moving On

Posted: February 9, 2010 in Hurts, Love, Parting, Soch

Relationships are made and broken, I am sure we have all experienced these sorts of stuff all the time, (hopefully not too often), So what happens When a relationship ends, I have seen that when two people part or break up, its always easier for one person to shed it off faster, while the other wades through the pain and grief of parting.

I think how one takes it depends on the personality of the person, But a lot depends on the manner in which you break of. There could be a lot of reasons

1. Constant arguments.

2. Or was it falling out of Love

3. Or not able to show it to the other

4. Or simply could not be bothered

5. Or did not want to work on the relation.

6. Was there respect in the relationship?

7. Did one cheat on the other.

8. Sometimes there is this Arrogance or Ego.. To say Sorry or to take the first step, Why does it matter who said sorry first.

How can it be helped, well if the break is up for the RIGHT REASON.. then it is easier, sometimes it so happens that one person has found someone else to love, while the other is smarting under disbelief and grief. The hurt may fall in a relation a Temporary one often called “on the rebound.”

But as they say TIME HEALS IT ALL. A time comes when tears dry up, The constant checking of the Phone for a missed call or sms stops, Emails , the heartache stops.

The only thing that remains is a regret for what could have been.

Everyone Moves on, That’s life, No matter how hard or bitter the parting is, This is the reality. But somewhere in the heart it remains that

WHY!!!
WHAT IF I TRIED A BIT HARDER!!!
WHAT IF I DID THIS !!!!
WHAT IF I SAID THIS !!!!

Sometimes a beautiful relation gets spoiled by personal Ego, or Personal attitude IF you love someone then This EGO or Attitude Should not have a place.

Does it matter if Ms. A comes and holds Mr. B’s hand and says Sorry Or vice versa.
Does it matter is Mr. B says I love you and Ms A leaves everything (even if it is for a Second) to come to him

DOES IT MATTER WHO SAID WHAT WHEN TO WHO… because its easier to Part then remain together.. That’s the biggest challenge to Stay then MOVE ON..

Ah well !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!